You gotta tease her, be funny and know what you’re talking about while being confident. Once in a while, be vulnerable. Women will loose their ever-lovin mind when they see a man do all these things. 10/10 works every time!
You know when you’re watching a great show, or even an anime, maybe even a video game, and there are questions that come up? How did character X do this? How did the training montage create Y effect.
You need to genuinely ( to the best you can) create that curiosity about them. They are a chapter yet to be explored, make them feel interested… but be interested if you can
Back in the day, I used this one successfully every time at a bar.
If you’re out with friends and see a girl within a group, you walk over by yourself and let them know you have a bet with your friends for a drink that you wouldn’t last 60 seconds talking to them. You egg them in to helping you get that drink by helping you out and make small talk. Learn their names and befriend them; namely the girls you are not interested in. The one you’re most interested in, give minimal attention to. After the time is up, thank them for helping you out and politely leave.
Usually it opens up opportunities later on for them to feel safe to talk with you. And this is when you give your attention to the one you were originally interested in.
Edit: I saw this move in the movie The Guardian and 100% stole it.
“You are really cute, for a girl” has worked many times to break the ice. You have to be quick witted to follow that up with the variety of responses it gets.
“ your shoes (dress, bikini, what ever) are really nice, I have the same ones” followed by a laugh and a wink.
(Woman here) I met my boyfriend on a dating app and aside from the fun banter, I could sense confidence. We did a game of laser tag at the arcade and he broke the touch barrier, but of course not in a creepy way lol. He helped me put my laser tag vest on and he also grabbed my hand during the laser tag so we could hide from others
I like to wear a digital ticker across my forehead that has my real-time credit score, and I carry copies of all my most recent bills for proof of residency.
Standing in your power, being a man of presence and living in your love. Otherwise you’re just an empty broken hearted vessel wearing a mask and that is quite sad and scary.
I make eye contact. Talk to them… like i do everyone else. Leave at a point that i make them laugh. It’s almost like a standard normal human interaction. Other then the joke ending with me in HR.
Be in decent health, good hygiene, and not give a f*ck. Doesn’t mean be obnoxious and do what you want. I’m saying carry confidence in what you do. Not a fat joke but when you take a step in the room people will feel the steps you take. You wanna dance with her? Ask her to dance, no extra babbling. You wanna ask her out or her number just do it. She says no? Just ask the next one. I’m not saying be cold but it’s not your job to entertain either. She isn’t contributing to a chat she may of even initiated? Cut it off and do something else. She’ll come back and be more engaging or the next will try harder after seeing one shot down.
Getting your ass handed to you in the Magic the Gathering card game.
I can’t say it’s a foolproof method, but it’s how me and my gf first bonded, and she still has a 4:1 win-loss ratio over me. But I think that in the end, I think I might be the biggest winner, because I have her in my life.
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A simple pickup line. “If you were my girlfriend, you’d never have to buy toilet paper again.”
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If you treat a woman like a friend, she’s usually more receptive. Basically, be friendly not horny.
Start dancing with them and say, “Hey, you wanna make $14 the hard way.”
Leaving the premises. The women perk up right away.
Filling her gas tank
“Hi.”
“Hey dude”
You gotta tease her, be funny and know what you’re talking about while being confident. Once in a while, be vulnerable. Women will loose their ever-lovin mind when they see a man do all these things. 10/10 works every time!
You know when you’re watching a great show, or even an anime, maybe even a video game, and there are questions that come up? How did character X do this? How did the training montage create Y effect.
You need to genuinely ( to the best you can) create that curiosity about them. They are a chapter yet to be explored, make them feel interested… but be interested if you can
Do something to embarrass yourself and recover from it
Be good looking.
Back in the day, I used this one successfully every time at a bar.
If you’re out with friends and see a girl within a group, you walk over by yourself and let them know you have a bet with your friends for a drink that you wouldn’t last 60 seconds talking to them. You egg them in to helping you get that drink by helping you out and make small talk. Learn their names and befriend them; namely the girls you are not interested in. The one you’re most interested in, give minimal attention to. After the time is up, thank them for helping you out and politely leave.
Usually it opens up opportunities later on for them to feel safe to talk with you. And this is when you give your attention to the one you were originally interested in.
Edit: I saw this move in the movie The Guardian and 100% stole it.
Slightly boasting myself up and see if she will comment a slick remark to tease me. This never fails and lets me know that she’s into me.
A White van and handcuffs
Now context and setting really matter here:
“You are really cute, for a girl” has worked many times to break the ice. You have to be quick witted to follow that up with the variety of responses it gets.
“ your shoes (dress, bikini, what ever) are really nice, I have the same ones” followed by a laugh and a wink.
“Does this smell like formaldehyde?”
(Woman here) I met my boyfriend on a dating app and aside from the fun banter, I could sense confidence. We did a game of laser tag at the arcade and he broke the touch barrier, but of course not in a creepy way lol. He helped me put my laser tag vest on and he also grabbed my hand during the laser tag so we could hide from others
Have money.
Compliment her on her choices.
Example: compliment the shoes, the earrings, the nail polish color, an interesting accessory. Something you find interesting or think it looks great.
She’s heard the beautiful eyes, nice smile, etc plenty.
I like to wear a digital ticker across my forehead that has my real-time credit score, and I carry copies of all my most recent bills for proof of residency.
Standing in your power, being a man of presence and living in your love. Otherwise you’re just an empty broken hearted vessel wearing a mask and that is quite sad and scary.
Oh I didn’t see you there
Dont flirt unless you are a Chad (which im not), that’s my flawless move.
Be attractive.
Don’t be unattractive.
Make eye contact.
Be funny.
Talk a lot to a lot of different people.
Pretend youre a normal human being.
I make eye contact. Talk to them… like i do everyone else. Leave at a point that i make them laugh. It’s almost like a standard normal human interaction. Other then the joke ending with me in HR.
“I think I’m starting to like you.”
Be in decent health, good hygiene, and not give a f*ck. Doesn’t mean be obnoxious and do what you want. I’m saying carry confidence in what you do. Not a fat joke but when you take a step in the room people will feel the steps you take. You wanna dance with her? Ask her to dance, no extra babbling. You wanna ask her out or her number just do it. She says no? Just ask the next one. I’m not saying be cold but it’s not your job to entertain either. She isn’t contributing to a chat she may of even initiated? Cut it off and do something else. She’ll come back and be more engaging or the next will try harder after seeing one shot down.
Wear a wedding ring, go to the bar, profit
Drop a packet of sugar in front of them and say they dropped their name tag
“How yu doing?”
“Did you know that sharks predate trees?” It hasn’t failed me yet in my sample size of 1.
“The sea was angry that day my friends”
“Years ago, when I was backpacking across Western Europe, I was just outside Barcelona, hiking in the foothills of mount Tibidabo”
Getting your ass handed to you in the Magic the Gathering card game.
I can’t say it’s a foolproof method, but it’s how me and my gf first bonded, and she still has a 4:1 win-loss ratio over me. But I think that in the end, I think I might be the biggest winner, because I have her in my life.
drops to knees please please please, PLEASE! (Extra points if done in public. Can confirm at least 50/50 will say yes to get you to shut up)
Being rich and in shape