I (31 trans man) live with my husband (32 cis man) of 5 years (we are in an open marriage- this is important for later) and our roommate/friend of 10+ years (38 cis man). Some backstory, our friend had cancer as a kid as well as complications from type 1 diabetes which has left him with limited vision as well as a minor mobility disability due to toe amputation. He recently left an abusive relationship (physical and emotional) where his wife was openly cheating on him and was like “you can’t do anything about it.” Understandably he’s been feeling really down lately. He’s been trying to match on dating apps with no luck, which isn’t helping his self-esteem. Today was his birthday and I felt kind of bad for him. To be honest, he’s a pretty good looking guy, I just saw him more as a bro. But tonight my husband was at a different friend’s house and I was feeling lonely. I asked him to watch tv on my bed and we ended up cuddling which led to swapping oral. And HOLY SHIT IVE NEVER HAD BETTER IN MY LIFE. We talked it over and are now gonna have a FWB situation. We both walked away feeling a million times better haha