Fewer men are disclosing their conservative beliefs on dating apps and will un match with me if I ask!

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They know their conservative beliefs are a red flag so they decide to hide it. A woman is going to ask anyways and figure it out eventually?! What is wrong with these men?!

Comments

  1. PrettyWhenSheSmiles Avatar

    The cynic in me says they’re trying to get down your pants before you figure it out like that’s going to work anyway. SMH.

  2. freckyfresh Avatar

    Take their unmatching as the trash taking itself out. I have no problem asking, but if I catch even a whiff of a conservative from their profile, it’s a left. Ugh… scary times.

  3. ItchyEvil Avatar

    The first thing in my “green flags I look for” section on Hinge is “voted for my reproductive freedom” and I still get alllllll of these likes from men with politics not listed, or “moderate,” or “other”. Like, why are they wasting a like on me?? Do they not read my profile?

    Even a liberal man who doesn’t understand why this is important information for women in 2025 (so doesn’t show it on their profile) is a deal breaker for me.

  4. BunnyMamma88 Avatar

    You’re not alone. It happened to me several times when I was single.

  5. sunshinerf Avatar

    I have it in my profile that I’m 100% liberal and it interested in Trump supporters. This way they don’t need to disclose anything or unmatch, it’s right there and they know I care about it enough to bring it up so they won’t bother.

  6. OrizaRayne Avatar

    They want to have sex before you figure it out.

    because they belong to the party of Christian family values.

  7. Any_Court_3671 Avatar

    I would be transparent and fully disclose in my bio that I am not interested in anyone that considers themselves a MAGA supporter. That should turn most of them off considering how cult like that group of people tend to be. They will react like you insulted God himself.

  8. JemAndTheBananagrams Avatar

    Those men don’t care about your preferences. They care about getting the opportunity to sleep with you before you realize this won’t work out, or to ‘persuade’ you into making an exception for them once you get to know them.

  9. MsAndrie Avatar

    I am not on the apps rn but, when I was, I stopped matching with any man who did not indicate liberal, progressive, or leftist beliefs.

    If they omit that information, they are trying to hide to attract every kind of women. Nope.

    If they put that they are “moderate” or “apolitical” or similar, that indicates they are conservative.

    Some conservative men will identify as liberal, though, so you still need to vet them. But doing the above will filter out many of these conservatives.

  10. Wooden-Map-6449 Avatar

    They’re stupid enough to be “conservatives” aka regressionists. They’re definitely stupid enough to think they can hide their sexist fascism from you too. Seems in-line with their stupidity. As a real man, I reject conservative idiots and apologize on their behalf to all females everywhere.

  11. WhoDoesntLikeADonut Avatar

    I hate being political, but it has become one of my main criteria, which I find horrifying how far people have gone on the scale.

    Went out with a guy who identified as libertarian but then a couple dates in he started quoting RFK Jr as an expert on health topics and telling me the best parts of the Joe Rogan interview with DJT and how good JR is as an “impartial interviewer” I was like nope that absolutely won’t work for me either.