The absolutely RAGE I am feeling right now against my MiL I cannot even put into words. My husband is 12 years older than his sister who in his mother’s eyes can do no wrong. Everything is always about this girl. We asked for help with our wedding: “no I have to buy SiL’s books for class.” “Can you help with IVF” “no I have to buy SiL a class ring, can you pitch in money for that?” And last night sends my husband a message that he should buy my SiL a card for getting an article published and give it to her sunday ON MY HUSBAND’S BIRTHDAY AT HIS PARTY
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Hun, you need to face reality: she is this shitty.
Expecting your mil to behave like a normal person is asking to be frustrated.
Now, usually, the scapegoat is also the doormat. If that’s your partners case…
You make him see that does not matter what he does, mommy wont change.
Relationships are two way street.
Support the hubs. Having a mom like this is tucking awful