So I’ve always detested the thought of dating apps
Swiping being swiped on not really seeing the person well in person
I’ve worked in bars a few years and restaurants and I can tell when couples are on their tinder dates
Just awkward for everyone all around
I’ve had my luck dating just going out with friends or by myself meeting a girl and getting a number and having that not always work but I had my share of luck like I said
I recently moved to overnight shifts in a warehouse and I hardly have time to go out with the guys or out in general
I have a very inconvenient and inconsistent schedule at the moment and well it’s spring and I think I have “the fever”
I really can’t date seriously at the moment but I’m looking for someone who is ok with me being randomly free or spontaneous or willing to deal with my night owl life style
I do feel like I’m giving up something genuine I’ve enjoyed with meeting people I like and there’s still a chance I can just very rare to do in general now even harder since my schedule is all out of wack
I’m not totally anti social I do have a more than a few groups of friends I can see just we are all weird with our schedules
So now I feel like this is what I’ve resorted to I’m not looking or expecting to find my soulmate
I do just want just some fun female company not really interested in drama just someone I can go to dinner with and hit a bar with afterwards again just some nice affectionate company
But I feel like I’ve lost something doing this or settling into it
Just a confession not looking for advice