for the girlies with good men…

where did you find them at 😭

because this dating app life is just… horrible. i can have a bunch of likes, or even get into relationships from them, but all of them aren’t worth a good gotdamn for one reason or another.

most common reasons:
– only want sex
– emotionally unavailable
– just want company/attention “in the meantime”
– extremely aloof/non-chalant
– insecure about themselves (this is a common theme)

i’m typically seeing guys around 27-32 (as i’m 27) but it doesn’t last long due to a combo of the reasons above. i most recently ended things with a guy because he was so caught up on how nice my car was, how “out there” my interests seemed, how i knew more than him (his words), the kind of life i lived, people i knew, etc.

meanwhile, he knew all of this stuff from jump, so i encounter quite a few timewasters also, but lucky for me he showed his red flags all at once before it got too far along so i was able to end it quickly