For those who couldn’t express sexuality whole living with parents, how was it like living on your own for the first time?
For those who couldn’t express sexuality whole living with parents, how was it like living on your own for the first time?
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exciting to finally express myself freely
I bought my first toy when I was in college. Definitely a good experience!
As a hypersexual woman it was hard to learn to suppress it while living at home with strict parents. It was very freeing to be on my own and enjoy the journey of discovering yourself and your own identity!
It was cool, I loved the freedom, but I thought I’d have sexual partners over all the time, and it turns out I love my home so much I don’t actually want random ppl in my place. I do enjoy walking around naked, not having to hide my sex toys and being able to masturbate in peace without worrying someone will knock and question why my door is closed
I spent my teenage years with a Mormon foster family, where I got consistently shamed for the body I landed in. Didn’t matter how modestly I dressed. Didn’t help that I was the only Asian girl in an all-white ward. The fosters didn’t allow me to date outside the church, and none of the other parents would let their sons date outside their race.
I internalized that so deeply that when I escaped at 19, I went heads down in my education and didn’t look up until I had a Masters degree at 23. Only then did I look around at the dating pool.
Took a while but I finally found my perfect guy. Let’s just say I’m making up for lost time! LOL
It felt like finally exhaling after holding my breath for years. Being on my own meant I could explore what I liked without shame or fear of judgment. Wearing what I wanted, walking around the house in lingerie just because, taking nudes without hiding the background even lighting a candle and dancing in front of a mirror felt freeing. It wasn’t about being wild, it was about finally feeling safe enough to be sensual on my own terms