For those who never felt initial chemistry, what made you settle?

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For those who never felt initial chemistry, what made you settle?

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  1. Fancy-Tank-9638 Avatar

    The realization that I was pushing him away simply because he wasn’t taking advantage of me. In my previous relationships, I paid for everything. I had sex whenever they wanted. I did nothing for me and lived for them. My now husband is the first man to show me what being treated right felt like and I wasn’t used to it. Once I realized I was basically self sabotaging a healthy relationship, I fell madly in love and didn’t settle at all ❤️