Foster mother used to keep me away from the rest of the house hold because I was acting out.

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When I was a teenager my foster parents built an extension onto our house. One day when I came back from school they had all my stuff moved out from my bedroom and into that room. There was a curtain over a glass window where everyone could peek out into my room when they wanted . I had no access to the toilet at night time . I wasn’t allowed into the main house a lot of the time and most of my food was brought out to me in this room. It was awful. She said it was because I kept slamming door of my old bedroom I wonder what she would think if she knew her foster son was molesting all 3 of her foster daughters.
Absolutely traumatic childhood lol anyone else ?

Comments

  1. Weary-Bid6861 Avatar

    That sounds incredibly isolating and neglectful. No child deserves to be treated that way, and it is heartbreaking that you had to go through both the abuse and the toxic environment on top of it.

  2. shoppygirl Avatar

    What you experienced was horrible abuse. I’m so sorry.

    It is so devastating that kids are taken out of an environment that is considered abusive and put into another abusive environment.

    I don’t know what the solution for this is. It’s obvious that there are foster parents that are just doing it for the money. There has to be a better vetting process.

    I hope you’re doing OK now.

  3. Creative-Passenger76 Avatar

    I’m so sorry you lived through that. I hope you’re living your best life now.