My friend always sleeps around and then she invites multiple guys over that she’s fucked and when they get there they’re sitting together socializing watching movies or listening to music and they slowly have to work out shes fucking them both. She makes it clear she doesn’t want a relationship but the guys never know they’re both fucking her until it comes up in topic. It’s always really sad to watch and usually the guys behaviors are fucked up anyway tbh like toxic guys or they just don’t care and end up leaving. Idk what to do. I’ve told her “don’t bring round two people who have both fucked you. That fucks men up and makes them compete and you shouldn’t want that for someone”. Then yesterday she told me she’s fucking 2 people and they hung out with her together The other day. I was like seriously 😐 how many times do I need to say. I just leave it now but it keeps ruining all her relationships and friendships and she cries but doesn’t change.
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She loves the friction
Maybe she’s trying to get groupsex
She sounds like a shitty person.
Get away from her.
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Like, at the same time?
Some people just want drama. I met a girl who said when she feels her marriage is too calm she will start arguing with her husband just because she wants tension
I had a girl pull that once. It was like she was hosting boyfriend tryouts and I was good on that so never texted/saw her again
I’m not sure your friend finds it attractive or just loves the drama but unfortunately, there’s going to be a guy out there that’s just the right amount of crazy and insecure for this to go really bad. I would keep my distance if I were you.
This sounds like a person you do not really want as a friend, she sound exactly like someone that would stab you in the back just to watch the fallout.
I had a friend who did something similar, she’d hookup with two guys and make it known (we were all in one friend group) and she thought it would make them “compete” but lol, they were taking advantage of her all along. They used her for sex as much as they wanted, and when the novelty wore 5 just started ignoring ber while still being buddies a d she was left thinking what part of her plan went wrong (I warned her like at least 4 times thst this would happen, then stopped since she didn’t listen).
I bet she is really hot.. crazy but hot
Is she the final boss “karen”
It’s something that she needs to work out on her own. If it ruins her friendships then she will see than and change her actions accordingly. Let her do her thing, if she likes two men then let her feel the repercussions of those actions.