I (23f) usually don’t do hookups, mostly because I am fairly kinky and it’s hard trying to communicate that to a ONS without it being a hassle and feeling a bit embarrassed. I also have the libido and mind of a 13-year old boy, so it’s hard to find someone who matches my enthusiasm about having sex.
Recently though, I did meet someone (29M) like that through Tinder and we immediately clicked (in my opinion) after I gave my number. I spent the night at his after movies and takeout and safe to say, neither of us got much sleep that night or the following morning.
I had to head to work in the morning, so I left with just a hug (he’s a bit awkward). I’m not really well-versed in hook-up culture, but would it be weird to follow up in a few days to say that I enjoyed our night and would be happy to do it again whenever he’s free? He recently got out of a fairly long term relationship and I’m about to graduate, so I don’t think either of us would want a long term thing. I’m a forward person usually, but I don’t want to scare him away by being pushy, even if it’s just for sex and nothing more.
How do I message him without coming across as desperate? I kind of am but he doesn’t need to know that.
TLDR; Had an amazing ONS with and wants it to continue, asking how.
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Dear Sir, I would like to bring to your attention that our fornication session was delightful, and I would very much like an encore at your earliest convenience. Please get back to me
Or any variation of this. You’re really over thinking here.
Just send him a text. If he let you stay over at his place, I think he might be receptive to seeing you again.
I’d say hit him up sooner than later.