i’m 4 months pp, i can’t get over this! my boyfriend mom was the gender keeper. i bought 4 smoke cannons for the reveal 2 pink and 2 blue. i told her MULTIPLE times that i did not want to be tricked with the gender, i just wanted it to be me and my bf using the smoke cannons to find out the gender. i was only pregnant with 1 baby. so we go to do the reveal, and i got pink smoke and my bf got blue smoke, i was mad!! she didn’t listen to my one wish!! so after the smoke cannons she was like i’m kidding inside this balloon is the real gender, we pop the balloon and it was blue, we were crying excited bc we both wanted a boy, then she says just kidding, bite into a cupcake and that’s the gender. it was pink, we did end up having a girl which is a blessing but i’m still so upset, we didn’t get any pictures with the smoke and most of the people left our gender reveal not even knowing what we were having. she really ruined my whole gender reveal:(
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I gotta say, if that’s who she is, you’re better off removing such occasions in the future. Save yourself the money and put it in the baby’s savings account and save yourself the hassle, too. People who love melodrama are always gonna make it.