Gf problems

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We’ve been dating for 3 years. She moved in on June 1st with a ton of shit. She drinks, is loud, criticizes my son, is very negative. Shes also generous, helps with utilities, cleans, does laundry, criticizes her own son. As a whole she’s pretty negative and not who I thought she was. She can be nice, but I feel like she’s manipulative and doesn’t hear me out when I’m frustrated or have an opinion. I have to be very aware of her feelings, but mine aren’t important. The relationship isn’t on equal footing. Think I might end it after a vacation coming up. I’m just kind of dead inside when it comes to her.

Comments

  1. NightOwlEye Avatar

    Yeah, dead inside about it means you’re done and it’s time to end it. Good luck.

  2. lavenderblossomjoy Avatar

    It sounds like you’ve already checked out emotionally, and ending it after your trip may be the healthiest choice for both of you.

  3. Expensive_Magician97 Avatar

    When you alter the relationship, the way you did, from dating someone to then cohabitating, the whole dynamic changes. She’s just showing you that she now feels free and more comfortable to be who she really is.

    Terminating that relationship will be best for you and for your son. Good luck.

  4. BubblynMuse Avatar

    if u already feel dead inside around her, that says everything tbh… waiting til after the vacation might make it messier but i get needing time to mentally prep