Im 22M and my 24F gf lied about how many men’s she’s been with in the past. When i was looking for a gf at the time i wanted a girl who didn’t hookup with people because i also only had 1 body at the time which was an ex but now’s it’s 2 obviously. She lied and told me i was the 4th when in fact i was the 9th and honestly i don’t even know if that is true. I would bring it up from time to time about the body count and she would continue to lie and stick with 4.
Fast forward to last weekend I know I breached her privacy by snooping into her notes but I had a feeling. I end up finding a notes list of guys she’s kissed and done it with. I don’t know if I can trust her after she lied to me for 2 1/2 years. She said she lied because she was scared of how i would react because I would talk about how I didn’t want someone who hookup with random people.
I really loved this girl and thought she would be the 1 but after finding this out I feel disrespected and my feelings are conflicted.
TL;DR: girlfriend been lying about her sexual history from the start and not conflicted on what to do next.