My girlfriend and I had been dating for a little over a month now. She had recently moved back from another state due to a physically abusive relationship and moved in with her brother who fostered a toxic physically abusive environment. She left her job, her brother had punched her and kicked her out. I had to drive an hour to another State at 5:00 am to pick her up because she was out of Gas and thought her brother had called the cops.
She was very distraught when we got back being she had to leave everything behind including her dog and cat. She is set to get everything today but she’s been gone since Thursday to Six Flags with her friend. Her clothes are at my place because she had to do laundry here. I had been putting gas in her tank and making sure she was taken care of each day. She has a new job she starts tomorrow but has been very stressed because she has no money and not a place to live. Not to mention she might be pregnant she thinks. I offered she could stay with me temporarily to get back on her feet. Since she’s been gone, she’s been very avoidant in conversation but would occasionally reach out with some affirmation on how amazing I was and that she appreciated me. I know she’s also struggling hard mentally too with just everything.
Today I wake up and she had unfriended me on Facebook. I liked a post she shared about “ her man.” This was a post another guy liked too but then she immediately unfriended me.
I don’t understand what happened while she was gone. Everything shifted and when I asked for a little clarity on what was going on, I was met with silence. I have to see her today and don’t know how to even start.
TL;DR Am I wrong for wanting clarity on her distance?
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FB post proves that she’s probably seeing someone else. Also, unless it was someone else’s baby to begin with, she couldn’t know she’s pregnant with your baby that early. Sorry brother.
Sorry dude, that’s your Ex girlfriend now. Block her back, grieve, and move on. If she comes back with some kind of sob story, ignore her, give her her stuff back, then let her go.
This is not a healthy and stable person you could be in any kind of relationship with that isn’t toxic.