Especially for in laws who are nasty and passive aggressive but hound husband every day and want to be up his ass..
He has a hard time saying no to them as his mom’s “Amor de Corazon” (gag)..
If 4 hours didn’t make an impact what is the least amount that did? 6-8 hours away? More? Reasons?
I just can’t do it anymore after 11 years. I find it insanely creepy the more space we try to create the further up my husband’s ass they crawl and the more they want to shove themselves on us.. I honestly find it embarrassing, disgusting, bizarre and infuriating .. it’s like the man you don’t like forcing himself on you nonstop.. it’s awful.
I really feel we need to move to save this marriage and my stress levels.. I need success stories and if I can’t move across
Country 30+ hour drive away.. I need to know if others moved shorter distances and had success
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From my experience, a 6-8 hour drive away is nothing, especially if your JNILs have a lot of energy and time. They come by for 4-6 days every month.
I’d think a 10-12 hour drive would deter many … Unless they’re wealthy and can afford plane tickets easily.
If you move away, I’d suggest you don’t have extra bedrooms. If you do, turn them into something else that would make it IMPOSSIBLE to put a bed in.