I have been with my current partner for 2 years and thought things were going well. We’ve hit some rough patches lately and I’m trying to hold things together but it feels like a battle that I’m never going to win and that nothing that I do is ever good enough. I think this has led me to do some soul searching and I think I am still harbouring feelings for my ex. She was my college sweetheart, things didn’t work out then and we tried again years later but again things didn’t work out, we have both moved on since then, both in new relationships and have remained friendly but I’ve never been able to shake the feeling that she is who I am meant to spend my life with. I’m not sure what I should do, do I stay with my current partner and try to make things work, do I take a stupid risk and confess how I feel and hope feeling are reciprocated and risk getting crushed, do I take a step back from everything and truly reevaluate my life where I currently am and where I actually want to end up?
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You need to stop looking back. Alot of times, people still harbored feelings because they remember the good times and the feelings they had, and not the real reason they didn’t last.
Everyone usually remembers the past better than it was. There was a reason you and your ex didn’t work out. I don’t think you should confess anything to her. I don’t think your ex is the one but I’m not sure your current gf is either. Idk what you’ve been fighting about or why you and your ex called it quits so the best Ive got for you is step back and sort through your feelings and go from there.