As someone who’s only ever been with women that have finished from penetration, you can definitely feel the vaginal muscles build, and then relax after climax. It also ‘grips’ slight differently when a girl has finished.
So I guess I wouldn’t feel the building (and the physical hand gripping etc) and would feel the instant relax.
In my experience noise alone isn’t a reliable indicator… actually quite the opposite the more noise the more likely she’s faking it (fake moaning)
But you cannot fake the pelvic thrusting chest tightening leg flailing senstation from the real deal… also if she isnt moving but is shivering like she has frostbite but I only ever saw that once
If there are no definite contractions of the cervix during and after, no holding of breath then a moan or some sort of breath release, no body stiffening (more so if laying down or standing) and if you can get her attention she’s definitely not having one 😁
It’s like with lying. You can tell because the words might be right but the tone is off, the rhythm is stale, and the body doesn’t know what it’s trying to say.
You know when you see a fake smile? How the mouth widens but there are supposed to be all those micro movements around the eyes?
If she’s faking an orgasm she’ll moan and all that and maybe twist and turn but she won’t have all those tremors and involuntary movements of the legs, her breathing won’t change and she won’t start sweating more.
It’s physically impossible to really fake an orgasm.
Unless she’s at least very very close to a real orgasm.
I assume it’s somewhat difficult to tell with many guys, based on how many times i’ve heard (from here, not me personally) “every woman i banged got off every time from penetration so it’s YOU that’s broken!”
I’m not sure if it’s a general thing, the women I had sex with had following indications of an orgasm:
• hard nipples
• increased blood flow resulting in red skin
• shaking body
• higher sensitivity of the clit afterwards
• deep breathing afterwards
Im guessing you don’t eat her pussy until completion since this is based on penetrative sex. Yeah, she’s faking it. Start eating her out before sex so she can actually have an orgasm THEN do penetrative sex.
You can’t. If she tells you, you can… that’s it, though. Just keep her needs in mind, love her with all the penis you can. Don’t be selfish. Ask her what you can do for her.
Fortunately for me, when my wife orgasms she clamps down hard for 20-30 seconds. The bigger the O the harder she clamps and the longer. Immediately after she becomes super relaxed and there is little to no friction.
Based on your comments it seems like you don’t eat pussy and is focused on penetrative sex.
So if you are penetrating her good examples of an orgasm would be vaginal contractions. You’ll feel the vagina pulsate for a few seconds.
People are saying it’s when the clit is more sensitive but that doesn’t occur if you’re not stimulating her clit.
If you think she’s faking incorporate clitoral stimulation as you’re penetrating her and use positions that are best for stimulating the g-spot. If you use all of those things simultaneously she has a VERY high chance in having an orgasm. But you gotta be able to withstand what that pussy may do to you before you get her to climax.
When and if you make her actually orgasm, you’ll see the difference. If you never do, you will never know because we are good at faking it. Sadly, it’s a common occurrence.
Here’s the deal. If she faked it that means she wants you to enjoy your time. If you guys are far enough along in your relationship with trust and communication and you bring it up to her she should answer you truthfully. If the trust is not there she may lie about it
The thing is a lot of people just want their partner to have fun during intimate moments and you guys might not know each other well enough for you to be able to perform well. So if she is faking it it’s because she wants you to have fun. You can bring it up tactfully, and when you guys are getting busy ask her what she wants
Usually you will be able to feel her contracting her uterus while you’re inside of her or even if you’re eating her out. Her moans will pick up and get louder and she may start doing weird contortions or moves with her body as she has to in order to succeed in getting her orgasm. You should also feel a gush of wetness that should verify that she came and she should have similar relief on her face and tiredness and out of breathness just like you unless she’s really good at faking it
When she comes, she has a specific reaction, she must not be aware of, and she gets very slippery. Faking always has a lot of talk, doesn’t get wet, turns me off and I usually just stop.
There’s no one way to know, every individual is different. If you value the truth and can handle it if it isn’t the answer you want, then the best policy here is communication. Ask her not to fake it and to communicate what she needs from you to do so.
Serious answer:
There will be a Lot more viscous fluid after a real orgasm. Often there are involuntary bodily twitching/shaking, and the internal muscular walls will pulse rapidly.
Jesus Christ, I feel like I’m seeing a lot of guys in the comments who probably have no idea because someone has faked an orgasm with them before. FEMALE HERE and I’ve faked many an orgasm. When faking my pussy walls won’t contract and my butt hole won’t twitch. It’s pretty hard to tell if she’s good at it
If she doesn’t squirt then probably yes but some girls are actually more/less sensitive so it depends. For some girls a bit of fingering and she’s gushing but for some even after 4 hours of pounding, oral, and fingering she still can’t get off.
Well when I have an orgasm or am on the verge of an orgasm I turn red in the face and start to sweat, I shake uncontrollably, I roll my eyes behind my head or cross them, I breathe heavily or tend to hold my breath, and my moans or uncontrollable. You can tell when someone is faking and when it is real, believe me. Also after an orgasm I am completely mentally mush lol. My brain literally turns to mush and I fall asleep and am completely worn out. Sometimes I literally feel high or act like I’m high. I will go on and on about how amazing it was lol. My bf says I went on for 5 minutes about how I didn’t want the orgasm to stop lol.
A little pressure against her clit with your tongue or finger and you’ll feel her heart pumping in it and she’ll twitch from the contact as it will be hyper sensitive
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As someone who’s only ever been with women that have finished from penetration, you can definitely feel the vaginal muscles build, and then relax after climax. It also ‘grips’ slight differently when a girl has finished.
So I guess I wouldn’t feel the building (and the physical hand gripping etc) and would feel the instant relax.
making fake noises
Pelvic contractions. Hard to fake, just stick your finger in her butt to check for them!
Simple. If she has her orgasm with me, she faked it.
Is that you Seinfeld?
She’s using her phone during sex.
If you have to ask, big man… 😏
Physical response
In my experience noise alone isn’t a reliable indicator… actually quite the opposite the more noise the more likely she’s faking it (fake moaning)
But you cannot fake the pelvic thrusting chest tightening leg flailing senstation from the real deal… also if she isnt moving but is shivering like she has frostbite but I only ever saw that once
If there are no definite contractions of the cervix during and after, no holding of breath then a moan or some sort of breath release, no body stiffening (more so if laying down or standing) and if you can get her attention she’s definitely not having one 😁
It’s like with lying. You can tell because the words might be right but the tone is off, the rhythm is stale, and the body doesn’t know what it’s trying to say.
You know when you see a fake smile? How the mouth widens but there are supposed to be all those micro movements around the eyes?
If she’s faking an orgasm she’ll moan and all that and maybe twist and turn but she won’t have all those tremors and involuntary movements of the legs, her breathing won’t change and she won’t start sweating more.
It’s physically impossible to really fake an orgasm.
Unless she’s at least very very close to a real orgasm.
If you don’t trust that she’s being truthful, then your relationship might have other problems
She had one from you.
Im only there for my pleasure. It’s a race for first.
Don’t let her have all the fun. Fake your own orgasms and then keep going. Drives em crazy
If you have to ask, she faked it.
If she is lying to you, then let her.
Are you soaking wet? No? She faked it.
She’ll tell you down the road next time you guys have a serious argument
I assume it’s somewhat difficult to tell with many guys, based on how many times i’ve heard (from here, not me personally) “every woman i banged got off every time from penetration so it’s YOU that’s broken!”
I’m not sure if it’s a general thing, the women I had sex with had following indications of an orgasm:
• hard nipples
• increased blood flow resulting in red skin
• shaking body
• higher sensitivity of the clit afterwards
• deep breathing afterwards
Also they were more “friendly ” to me.
You can also skip all that and just ask her ;-D
Only the vaginal discharge can’t be faked. She may be using “fake” orgasms to excite you, so just lean in.
WHO CARES?
You will feel the pulsing around your dick. If you don’t…she didn’t.
I think one can’t tell, but I think if she orgasms every time you have sex she is faking. Like when I put in too little effort there is no orgasm.
Im guessing you don’t eat her pussy until completion since this is based on penetrative sex. Yeah, she’s faking it. Start eating her out before sex so she can actually have an orgasm THEN do penetrative sex.
How eager is she to have sex with you a second time?
You can’t. If she tells you, you can… that’s it, though. Just keep her needs in mind, love her with all the penis you can. Don’t be selfish. Ask her what you can do for her.
Fortunately for me, when my wife orgasms she clamps down hard for 20-30 seconds. The bigger the O the harder she clamps and the longer. Immediately after she becomes super relaxed and there is little to no friction.
Based on your comments it seems like you don’t eat pussy and is focused on penetrative sex.
So if you are penetrating her good examples of an orgasm would be vaginal contractions. You’ll feel the vagina pulsate for a few seconds.
People are saying it’s when the clit is more sensitive but that doesn’t occur if you’re not stimulating her clit.
If you think she’s faking incorporate clitoral stimulation as you’re penetrating her and use positions that are best for stimulating the g-spot. If you use all of those things simultaneously she has a VERY high chance in having an orgasm. But you gotta be able to withstand what that pussy may do to you before you get her to climax.
She doesn’t call you back
Ask. If you can’t trust someone in a relationship, it’s a bad relationship.
Did you finish first…doesn’t matter lol
If her legs / body isn’t shaking and she’s not out of breath then she probably didn’t orgasm
When and if you make her actually orgasm, you’ll see the difference. If you never do, you will never know because we are good at faking it. Sadly, it’s a common occurrence.
This entire thread has me convinced the female orgasm is as elusive as ever
Get it together boys
When it’s a necessity, I’ll be concerned. 🤷🏼♂️
I can’t speak for all women, but you can definitely feel the spasms.
If you don’t feel her clamping down on your dick or just spitting it out, it wasn’t real. The twitches don’t lie.
Here’s the deal. If she faked it that means she wants you to enjoy your time. If you guys are far enough along in your relationship with trust and communication and you bring it up to her she should answer you truthfully. If the trust is not there she may lie about it
The thing is a lot of people just want their partner to have fun during intimate moments and you guys might not know each other well enough for you to be able to perform well. So if she is faking it it’s because she wants you to have fun. You can bring it up tactfully, and when you guys are getting busy ask her what she wants
Communication is key
31f,
Usually you will be able to feel her contracting her uterus while you’re inside of her or even if you’re eating her out. Her moans will pick up and get louder and she may start doing weird contortions or moves with her body as she has to in order to succeed in getting her orgasm. You should also feel a gush of wetness that should verify that she came and she should have similar relief on her face and tiredness and out of breathness just like you unless she’s really good at faking it
When she comes, she has a specific reaction, she must not be aware of, and she gets very slippery. Faking always has a lot of talk, doesn’t get wet, turns me off and I usually just stop.
Stop worrying about it, if she faked it she did it for you.
Roll an insight check.
I can tell you with complete confidence that they can’t.
You can’t. End of story
There’s no one way to know, every individual is different. If you value the truth and can handle it if it isn’t the answer you want, then the best policy here is communication. Ask her not to fake it and to communicate what she needs from you to do so.
Serious answer:
There will be a Lot more viscous fluid after a real orgasm. Often there are involuntary bodily twitching/shaking, and the internal muscular walls will pulse rapidly.
Jesus Christ, I feel like I’m seeing a lot of guys in the comments who probably have no idea because someone has faked an orgasm with them before. FEMALE HERE and I’ve faked many an orgasm. When faking my pussy walls won’t contract and my butt hole won’t twitch. It’s pretty hard to tell if she’s good at it
I figured out that if I was proud of my performance afterward, then she probably faked it.
When you do misionary and her leg start to shaking. No its not orgams , its her weak hips.
The feel. I can tell if her body reacts a certain way. There as some things you just can’t fake easily.
If you have to ask…
Talk to her.
If she doesn’t squirt then probably yes but some girls are actually more/less sensitive so it depends. For some girls a bit of fingering and she’s gushing but for some even after 4 hours of pounding, oral, and fingering she still can’t get off.
If you gotta ask my dude……..
My girl gets goosebumps on her ass and legs. Kinda hard to fake that or at least I think so 🤔🤔🤔🤔
If it was ugly and/or unflattering, also telling you to stop fucking moving/touching for a min immediately after. Those are good signs.
There are 2 physical giveaways if it’s real. Flushed chest and dilated pupils.
If you have to question if she actually did, she probably didn’t 🤣
Did she sound like a porn Star?
Yes – faked it
No – probably not
Well when I have an orgasm or am on the verge of an orgasm I turn red in the face and start to sweat, I shake uncontrollably, I roll my eyes behind my head or cross them, I breathe heavily or tend to hold my breath, and my moans or uncontrollable. You can tell when someone is faking and when it is real, believe me. Also after an orgasm I am completely mentally mush lol. My brain literally turns to mush and I fall asleep and am completely worn out. Sometimes I literally feel high or act like I’m high. I will go on and on about how amazing it was lol. My bf says I went on for 5 minutes about how I didn’t want the orgasm to stop lol.
If you can’t tell, then she probably faked it… There’s A LOT of tension down there when it happens.
When ‘yeah yeah oh yeah. Yes great thank you’
A little pressure against her clit with your tongue or finger and you’ll feel her heart pumping in it and she’ll twitch from the contact as it will be hyper sensitive
Even more importantly: why do you care? Lol
Who cares?