Happened to my buddies and I quite a bit when we were all on the swim team. We’d usually just smile and nod as if to say “sup”?
Guys- how many of you have been shamelessly and flagrantly ogled by one lady or a group of ladies? What was the occasion? How did you respond?
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No you didn’t.
Yeah, it was bad. I shit my pants. Not recommended
Oh for sure all day every day, it’s amazing I get anything done tbh but I’m just so strong I push through it.
Having been ogled countless times and groped on more than a few occasions, I just rolled with it. As men, we cannot really call them out. What am I, as a 6’2″, 200 lb man in my dress blues going to do when a 5’1″ grandma pinches my ass? Slap her? Call her a cad and a masher? (hey, if she’s a grandma, she might at least know what those terms mean).
I was ogled (and groped by one) at a bar by a bachelorlerte party. I just kept going as I was embarrassed and my girlfriend was not far behind me.
Not by sober ones, but a few het pushy as fuck with a couple drinks in them.
I did have a friend in college who timed her workouts to when the swim team was around though so its easy enough to buy lol.
Bachelorette party, I was the bartender. I was super young. Got ones number and said I’d join her when I got off at the next bar. Left work, was so excited I love tapped a car. Left my information with security and went home.
When I was young and skinny I got it a lot. Usually harmless sometimes a little mean but nbd.
“How do I get women to look at me” FTFY
At 60 I’d be astonished if this happened – my immediate thought would be that she was a health professional who was concerned I was about to have some sort of cardiac event!
Never happened to me…
It’s been a few years. But I have enjoyed a catcall here and there throughout my life.
Always fun, always an ego boost. I’d respond with a smile and acknowledgment.
It was about 10 years ago. I was in the best shape of my life at the time. I stopped at the local super market to pick up some beer on the way home. There was this hot asf girl giving out some kind of samples near the liquor section. I think it was vodka or something like that. Not my thing. I passed by her and said no thank you. Kept going down the isle and I paced back and forth in front of the massive beer cooler trying to make a decision. I felt like someone was watching me. I grabbed my beer and spun around quick to see her leaned over into the opposite end of the isle staring at me with her mouth wide open. The look on her face was utter terror when I spun around. Im a pretty shy and introverted guy. So I just smiled, chuckled and left the area away from her to spare her the embarrassment. I can still see the look on her face when I turned around.