Even before I saw porn I saw sex scenes in movies where women would be squealing and gasping during sex. I just assumed that’s naturally how women acted. Now I know there’s a full spectrum of behavior I’m curious where your wife/gf falls on the spectrum. Are they usually quiet, noisy or somewhere in between?
Guys: how vocal is your female partner during sex?
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Even before I saw porn I saw sex scenes in movies where women would be squealing and gasping during sex. I just assumed that’s naturally how women acted. Now I know there’s a full spectrum of behavior I’m curious where your wife/gf falls on the spectrum. Are they usually quiet, noisy or somewhere in between?
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Depends on if the kid is home/awake.
Kids are usually asleep so we try to be quiet, but God i miss the sounds
When we started dating she was quite vocal. Not porn vocal, but pretty vocal compared to previous women I’ve been with. These days we both have to keep things more quiet though because her 15yo sister lives with us and we obviously don’t want to bother her much. When the sister is at someone else’s house she’ll up the volume slightly but after a few years of learning to keep it quiet that’s the standard now
Just hit the right spot and see for yourself. Once got a woman who sounded out her vowels during sex. I didn’t like it but it was weirdly hot. My gf now, she moans in a low soft tone, like someone holding their bladder all day then finally relieving themselves. It’s just chef’s kiss at that point. Many women sound different.
Everyone is different. Never judge by porn.
My girl is noisy, does not scream or anything but moans a lot. She sometimes crys too which worries me. I am with a woman who has dealt with sa and stuff, she is so unique compared to most women I slept with .. she gets overstimulated and reacts the way she does. It doesn’t bother me but definitely is one of a kind.
Most will intentionally be quiet if there are others in the home. But when no one’s home gentle moaning and heavy breathing are pretty common. I often tell my partners I want them to be more vocal and that it helps communication of what they like. I don’t like overly dramatic and fake, but just encourage them to let loose more.
You guys have sex with your female partner?
My ex was pretty vocal when her teenage daughter wasn’t home. One day we were trying to be quiet, I must have hit the right place because she moaned once and not terribly loudy or so we thought.
We went back to watching tv in the living room and her daughter came out and said sounds like you two had a nice afternoon
Extremely. I’ve also had girls where they’re quiet as a church mouse. It all depends on the girl
Everyone is different, but my gf is loud af lol
Mostly they’re pretty loud. Not always. One was absolutely silent.
‘How women acted’ I think that’s the issue in taking reference from porn and movies.
Every women is different, speak to hear to understand her better. You can say things like, I love when I hear you. But don’t push
Ive experienced everything from dead starfish to screaming banshee.
Bossy to passive.
The best have landed somewhere in the middle.
Id say most seem to be moans and heavy breathing.