Had sex first time it was good till foreplay I was rock hard. But when we move to penetration I didn’t enjoy how vagina felt rubbery and tight and lost my sensation. Why that happen I am still clueless. Soon after i came out of vagina again strt fondling caressing I started feeling sensation and again I was tock solid.
Any advice from the experience ones.
Had sex first time but something was off
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Totally normal to feel that way the first time! Sometimes nerves, tension, or just getting used to new sensations can make things feel different or less enjoyable. Take it slow, communicate with your partner, and give yourself time to get comfortable it usually gets better with experience.
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I’m going to say it’s a mix of nerves and potentially being overstimulated by the entire experience seeing as it was your first time.
It’s actually really common for first-time sex to feel a little ‘off’ or not how you imagined. A lot of it can come down to nerves, pressure to perform, or your body just not being fully relaxed yet. The vagina might’ve felt tight or rubbery because your body wasn’t used to the sensation or you were overthinking it, which can dull your arousal.
Was she enjoying it? Rubbery doesn’t sound good, man. She might have been really nervous, too, and just wasn’t getting wet.
It helps to jerk off less. The issue is the vagina doesn’t focus on the head of the dick like you typically do when masturbating. Plus the more rhythmic and used to the motions you get the more you can start to tweak it to get that extra sensation. Also a cock ring can help with that.
Plus I’m sure nerves are a factor too. Men always have some performance anxiety with a new partner, even when experienced.
The rubbery tight part is the best part.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
Shiiiit! I started out with using all kinds of toys. I’m just the sort of guy that wants his woman to cum at least as many times as I do throughout a night. 3-5 typically for me with someone I’m really into. As for her the more the merrier. 6-15x for her lol. I’ve literally never heard of it hurting matters.
The first time is a shit show. 🤣
Don’t worry, it gets better with practice 😀
Nerves and first time experience, don’t expect perfection as the movies and porn show. It’s not really like that. We giggle, we worry, we over think. RELAX and just have fun with it. And please talk to your partner. This is NORMAL!! Don’t panic.
Use lubricants.
Too used to your hand. Stop fapping for a while and you’ll be fine.
I don’t know anyone who actually enjoyed their first time lol. Most likely, you both needed to spend more time on foreplay (especially for her). The vagina is supposed to be on the tight end, but not supposed to feel like it’s constricting you to the point of losing feeling. The vagina is also supposed to self-lubricate when properly aroused, so it’s not supposed to feel rubbery either. Lube can help, especially if this young lady is also feeling nervous.