Had to file a sexual harassment claim at work, what’s next?

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I never wanted to be in this situation. I’ve never had many issues shutting things down on my own and I’ve had to do it a lot, working in a male dominated field, but this has been far more constant and intense than anything I’ve experienced before in a work environment.

It’s effected my quality of life, it’s ruined my self-esteem, and last week it escalated so far beyond the realm of what is acceptable, I had to see the situation for what it actually is.

I took Monday off to call some people and see how best to approach, and emailed HR that night. The next morning, the person in charge of HR got in contact with me and sounded genuinely disturbed by what I told him. He said he’d comp me for my days out since I don’t feel comfortable working with the manager anymore and he’s coming in to talk to people this week.

I am so nervous. The impulse to blame myself is strong but I’ve got good support around me to keep me from losing my nerve. I don’t know what to be prepared for. I asked to be moved to another department but I don’t know how that’s going to go. The guy is well liked because he treats his guys very well. I worry this kind of thing is a scarlet letter.

Has anyone had to go through with something like this? How did it turn out?

Comments

  1. AxeWieldingWoodElf Avatar

    I haven’t but I just want to say well done. You’re doing the right thing calling it out and I don’t know you, but I’m pretty proud right now.