Hi, I’m 20F. Two days ago, I had unprotected sex. My partner didn’t ejaculate inside me, but I still didn’t wanna take any risks, so I took an emergency contraceptive pill (Unwanted-72) within an hour. At the time, my period was predicted to come in 9 days, and I know that might be close to my ovulation window. I’ve been really anxious ever since.
I know having unprotected sex was a mistake… I genuinely do. But I’m also trying to be responsible now and do everything I can to protect myself.
I’d really appreciate any reassurance, advice, or hearing from people who’ve been in a similar situation. Please be kind. I already feel scared and overwhelmed.
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Take a deep breath. Even with you having your period, it doesn’t mean you’re not pregnant. You can try taking a pregnancy test as it detects it early now.
You can’t really do anything except wait for your period.
If you stress too much, you’ll only make it harder for yourself.
I’ve (19F) been in this situation before twice, and I know how you’re feeling, so I also know that you’ll probably still worry about it a lot until you get your period no matter what people tell you.
Keep in mind that any hormones you’ve taken might delay your period, which doesn’t mean you’re pregnant!
I think the best thing you can do is tell yourself that whatever happens, you can’t change anything about it right at this moment and that it is highly unlikely that you’re pregnant. Personally, even though I’ve had accidents with condoms breaking i haven’t gotten pregnant (took the emergency pill aswell)
All you can do is wait for now,
Stressing too much may delay your period too (at least thats what happens when im really stressed), don’t give it too much control over your life until you know more.
Hope you’ll feel better soon!
According to a study I glanced upon, the effectiveness of unwanted 72 is between 80 and 90+% if taken within 72 hours, some say 94% if taken within 24 hours. From a personal experience, it was effective as advertised. I wouldn’t worry about it.
Don’t worry yourself. In 10 of these scenarios, only one of you would end up pregnant. 9 of you are fine. This statistic also looks better because as you say, he didn’t finish. Also ovulation tends to be around 14 days before your period so you’re probably in the post stage – in this case all 10 of you don’t get pregnant.
So, if you get pregnant, I’ll eat my hat, darling. Just stay nice and calm and I promise you things will be fine 🫶
Go to the dollar store if you have one and get a couple tests. So you can test for a few days. Many drs use the same tests as they sell. Remember stress can cause you to be late so try to keep chill. Good luck.
I’ve been where you are and anxiety delayed my period even more. Be mindful that it could be doing the same here, which in turn will make you more anxious you’re pregnant. The fact you’ve had sex outside of your ovulation window is a plus, he also didn’t ejaculate in you which is a double plus.
If you’re a week late after your projected period, take a test then. Future you will handle it, whatever happens, the same way current you is handling this problem. It seems highly unlikely you are pregnant. Take care x
Please don’t panic. Take another test and maybe visit a GP just to cover all options. Stress can delay your period so it won’t help. You’ll be ok.
I’ve also had sex two times in one week and taken the after pill twice in the same week, i have been panicking and stressed until i finally got my period 2 days ago. I know it’s very irresponsible of me but only us girls can understand the stress and anxiety around getting unwanted pregnancy. Stay calm and healthy your period is coming girlll🤗
I’ve always used the pullout method while in relationships. While this may not be the smartest choice, I hate condoms and I haven’t ever had an issue. If you’re sexual active, period cycles can get really wonky and inconsistent. I’ve had a lot of scares and would worry about this while I was younger too, but it was never anything. As long as dude didn’t bust inside of you, the situation is in your favor. Don’t trip on it.
Worrying will do nothing for you, and people use the pull out method for years without getting pregnant if that helps.
Stop having unprotected sex
Relax. Like everyone said. Take a pregnancy test in a few days. I think they detect 5 days out or something.
Ovulation window also suggests you aren’t ovulating so it’s harder to fall pregnant. Maybe I got the terms mixed up. But your risk of falling pregnant are low since you are 9 days from period.
Worse case you’re pregnant (which I reckon you arent) go to an abortion clinic. Yo don’t have to tell anyone or need a GP referral these days.