am now 18 years male old i live in mumbai since childhood i had a confession that i really couldnt tell anyone i know most of you wont believe so i cant help it but
I was sexually harrased for almost 4 years by my siblings as i was in 2 grade i was on a trip to rajasthan with my cousin and grandparents there my grandparents slept on bed so me and my older cousion(brother) slept on floor there he made me touch his d?ck and further when we reached back to our home in rajasthan he made me drink his piss and give him a BJ That was done I live in a joint family and we are 4 brothers as in joint family the older son of my uncle who lives with us is well connected with the above cousin so he started touching me trying to put his dick inside me and making me forcefully give him blowjob and this all continued for almost 3rd to 6 th grade And 2-3 more of my cousin got involved in this God helped me and they could never penetrate me if they would have i could have been in great trouble
Now i am very low about this i dont what to do i have to see that cousin everyday and pretend anything never happen
Anyone please help??
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Hi love 💕 just know that what you experienced is disturbing and wrong in every way possible, don’t let anyone make you think differently. Secondly I suggest you do anything possible to get yourself out of that situation whether it be starting an online fundraiser or a job and saving money to move out. If not just avoid him as much as possible and preoccupy yourself with other things like a hobby or activity. I hope you’ll be okay ❤️
Do you have any friends that you can live with? I would seriously consider getting as far away as possible, I am so sorry this happened to you…
Well first off I’m sorry you had to go through this it’s not acceptable, second you should seek counselling or therapy to help you cope with this, 3rd it might be time to tell your parents or guardian but maybe do therapy first this will help you and you will have an some one supporting you for the aftermath, you have been through alit and you will need some one to support you and guild you, either way this is absolutely not your fault, he is in the wrong and if he has Dione it too you , what’s stopping him from doing it again if a member of your family that’s young,? Again non of this was your fault it all on him!
I’m so sorry that happened to you, this post just made me tear up because I know the exact feeling of having to see that person who assaulted you everyday.
You wasn’t just harrased, you was raped by your brother and cousins and they are very sick prople who should not just be able to walk away from this. I know it’d be very hard to talk about your experiences and you by no means have to go into detail but you should really tell someone you trust, theres a huge chance your brother and cousins could repeat these actions on other vulnerable people in the future, maybe even their own children as disturbing as that thought is.
Please don’t bottle up these feelings if it is severely affecting other aspects of your life, there are people who can help guide you through dealing with this type of trauma, I wish nothing but the best for you.
Stay strong homie
Bully him back and remind him of his deeds
Aggressively! Make him afraid of you!
Just tell someone your parents or grandparents that they tried to rape you or touch you sexually, I am sure they can help or understand
But I hope you recover from all the trauma you went through amen🙏
I’m sorry you went through all that. Tell people who try to put their hands on you “NO!” And keep saying no. Is there anyone you can talk to about this?
Go to the police’
Bro go to the police and straight up file rape complaint, tell all this to all of ur family members send message and everything destroy them in any way as possible.. Do something about it
to those who’re leading him to his family; indian families are… strange to say the least. isolation is such a common manipulation tactic used by them. many trad/rural indian parents would tell their kids to be quiet for the sake of the family. asian family dynamics are really weird.
OP, if you’re still living with your family, i think you should seek online therapy. are you going to school or university? if so, try to wait it out for a few more years (though definitely seek some form of therapy). later, try to get a job far away from any of your rapists.
i’m sorry that happened to you; i hope you heal. i wish you the best!!
I’m sorry you dealt with that. You should have everyone over for dinner and tell them what they did and fly far far away the same night.
Oh, honey, that’s not harassment, that’s abuse!! Those boys sexually abused you, and you need to tell your parents and go to therapy or at least tell an adult you trust. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that and have to face your abusers daily. I fear for any other young female relatives they have access to. You should tell someone so they don’t create more victims.
Oh god this is the first time I have heard of this, I am at a loss for words, I don’t think it is a good thing either to stay quiet and let this continue
Talk to someone you trust or close too , because honestly it’s acceptable. The most hurting part about it is that you are even staying with the people who tried to rape you in the same house.No NO NO . It’s high time you take actions against them .
Blackmail him.
Although it’s been too long and some ppl might not believe you. At least u can plant doubts and smear his name.