Like maybe for example she came up to you and maybe hugged you but said she had a reason for why, and not just randomly. Or maybe she came up to you and put her arm around you to show her interest in you. But regardless, she never did it to harm you.
Has a woman you don’t even know ever came to you and touched you but not inappropriately as they weren’t hurting you? If so, what happened?
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At a bar once a girl flat out grabbed me and kissed me, realizing a few seconds later I wasn’t who she thought I was. I always wondered what it must be like to feel so comfortable kissing someone like that. She was very red in the face and apologetic afterward
Now that I think on it, yes. Maybe twice. This was in my 20s though so all I recall is a hug and a hoodie.
Bro, you got pickpocketed.
In my twenties women would like touching my arms quite a bit. Just randomly
non-inappropriate touches are frequent, usually something like the hand on the side of the shoulder, touching your arm as part of conversation.
Inappropriate also happens. Had a 40-something year old woman once just grab my hand while I was sitting at a bar, enjoying my beer, and she just yanked my hand into her crotch and then she looked back at her friend like “heeey! look, I did it!” like she was proud that someone had their hand in her crotch, despite me not having much choice or at least being like… an active participant.
Yeah, women have flirted with me. They’ve come up and hugged me, danced up on me, groped me, grabbed my arms or chest or whatever. Some appropriately, some inappropriately, some welcome, some not, none of them hurt me.
Yeah, one time at a club a woman did this and played like we are a couple she said one guy is acting weird towards her and is making her uncomfortable.
There was one dude that was trying to touch her, I told him to lay off my girl, he tried to act macho, then backed down.
She was nice, we hooked up afterwards but we were both really drunk and I don’t remember much besides her insisting on me walking her home
A couple weeks ago at a bar this girl just started rubbing the back of my neck while I was with friends at a table. Probably liked me but she seemed kinda drunk
Why that question?
At the club… kissing involved…
A few times due to some misunderstanding, greeting kiss, hugging…
Hand, arm, shoulders, sometimes chest. Couple times a month I guess. What happened? Nothing happened. They touched me, we went out with our conversation. What’s supposed to happen? I yell stranger danger and run away? What are you asking?
Drunk girls, yes. Not very flattering except in one case
Fuck no, don’t invade my personal space. I wouldn’t let anyone I don’t know just walk up and hug me.
Creepy behavior regardless