Has anyone ever just come right out and said it? Life causes changes and changes add character. I get it. But I’ve also seen so many people that, within 10 years, look nothing like the wedding pics.
What did you do when the passion died? When you bought twin beds?
What did she/he say?
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Gf, not an SO, but yeah. She was rather busty and usually wore low cut blouses to work (customer service for a countertop company). I knew her boss and he was an utter prude who was already unhappy with her work attire.. he straight up told her she was on thin ice for that and other reasons, and regardless of that, I don’t find chest tats on women to be at all attractive and told her so.
She decided to go out on a girl’s weekend and get a huge gothic one anyway on her chest and neck. Came back proud of her accomplishment, and I told her congratulations but I’m not a fan and good luck with her future endeavors. She tried to argue that it was her body and she could do what she wanted. I told her that I agreed with her and supported her right to get whatever she wanted, but I don’t have to support the actual choice and didn’t have to stick around for the aftermath.
She got fired the next day. She ran out of savings a couple months later and had to move back in with her folks.
You can bring data to stupid but you can’t make stupid think.
Yes, and felt bad but I was honest. Over time, I became un attracted as she got progressively overweight.
Yep. She got so overweight that the fat start sagging down over her knees for fucks sake. I couldn’t take it anymore. I straight up told her that if she didn’t lose the weight I was leaving her because it’s bullshit if she expects me to be attracted to someone who gained 50 lbs and was pushing 200 at 5’3. Hurt feelings lots of arguments but she eventually lost the weight
Haven’t had to yet but I have told her if she does get fat im leaving
I told one once, she was young, and got insecure but got snatched real quick. But I was tactful and smart about how I said things, and I kept it short, made it about being concerned for her. But it was helpful she was young (<25). The older lazy slobby ladies, or moms 🥴😬, they ain’t gonna lose the weight no matter how u go about it. Cut ur loses and get a lawyer or a mistress.
Hell no. My wife ballooned to 320 pounds but I am still extremely attracted to her. Bonus: she has DD breasts for me to love and enjoy.
It didn’t go well
Nope. I’ve never experienced that. I’ve changed my mind on a date when she took her top off and it turned out she had massively bushy armpit hair. I just couldn’t …
She told me and hurt like hell. Had my first panic attack since 13.
I had been dating this girl for a couple weeks when she cut her already short hair into a very short pixie cut and I lost all my attraction to her immediately upon seeing her, looked like a little boy. I did not mention it but she could tell I wasn’t a fan of the result and ghosted me later that day lol. Oh well.
maybe a little different since I(F) was the one who got told that.
for some context, I am traditionally attractive with a fit body and elegant curves, I have a high libido and am up for anything anytime with a partner.
after three years I noticed sex wasn’t the same, mind you we were still fucking once or twice a week, but it was more me being used as a cumdumpster kinda thing. The basic need of my partner to cum, maintenance sex. Which was good still, but I missed our explorations too, our dynamics.
he didn’t eat me out as much, didn’t finger me as ofte n to make me cum just because.
We weren’t having wild and kinky sex as often, if I shared a fantasy or something I wanted to try he’d kinda agree amd say later, but then never go through with it, he didn’t even look me in the eyes while fucking as much.
yes, I noticed, and it was making me insecure, I wanted to work on it.
one day he finally confessed he was losing his attraction to me, not the base one since apparently I’m hot and he loved filling my pussy, but the “obcession” and “curiosity” was not there for him any longuer.
I was so relieved we finally had that out in the open so we could work on it, but he said he didn’t think there was fixing.
It’s kinda very pathetic of me, feeling relief from being told that LOL, but yeah, he broke up with me not much after. It destroyed me a bit.
I couldn’t imagine that happening in scenarios other than relationship-ending arguments. Something you can’t un-say, and the type of thing that will absolutely change the way yall interact after that.
Then again, some people never learned the “if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all”
The best thing that ever happened to me was being told I wasn’t attractive anymore by my ex wife. It hurt, but once I left I felt the weight I’d never felt before lift from my shoulders. You never realize how much of a black cloud someone can be until they are gone. Come to find out she was a complete psychopath and my love clouded that.
Yes, I was big when I met my wife. About 260. She was avg weight. I lost about 60lbs in the beginning of our relationship. We both ended up gaining weight back. I gained back up to 260 and decided to have weight loss surgery. I lost 100 lbs. she gained more than 100lbs. And the bedroom became dead. She kept asking me why weren’t having sex and I finally had to be honest and tell her I was not attracted to her at her weight? She was very upset and it took a long time and discussions to work past it. At the time she didn’t want to have weight loss surgery but continued to not lose and actually gained. She then decided to have it.