Sometimes even though I don’t try to, I guess I compare my relationship to other based on how theirs looks. I have a great boyfriend and we are so similar but also different and I love that for us, we have been judged a lot based on how we look different but sometimes that leads me to compare. How do I stop this? I love my boyfriend and being with him. My close friends know and love us but sometimes with past friends I always wonder if they judged us secretly.