Have you ever felt dirty inside after being sexually submissive? Even if you had fun at the time.

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Have you ever felt dirty inside after being sexually submissive? Even if you had fun at the time.

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  1. fyrdude58 Avatar

    There’s always a possibility of feeling bad about a sexual activity afterwards, especially one which is considered taboo by mainstream society, and if it was the first time you tried said activity.

    If this was an encounter with someone you know and trust, you should have a conversation with them about how things went, how you feel, and the need for appropriate after-care as well as safe words for future play.

    It is important to note that in dom/sub relationships, it is the sub who is the one actually calling the shots. Scenes should be agreed upon prior to any activity, including limits and trigger points.