Have you ever had sex with someone you weren’t physically attracted to? Why or why not?

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Have you ever had sex with someone you weren’t physically attracted to? Why or why not?

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  1. No_Lavishness_6228 Avatar

    Yea. To get a raise lol

  2. NoodlesMarie Avatar

    I really wanted to love him for ‘who he was’ – also, maybe, possibly drugs and low self-esteem 🙃

  3. dragonfly-1001 Avatar

    Yep. A result of very low self-esteem.

  4. Odd_Seesaw_3451 Avatar

    Shitloads of alcohol

  5. coconut-charms Avatar

    Because he was a nice guy who showered me with gifts and I was young with bad eyesight.

  6. moongazr Avatar

    Absolutely! 80% of my sexual partners I was not physically attracted to but I enjoyed their personality and presence. Also I was young and dumb with low self esteem so I never believed I could “get with” someone conventionally attractive.

  7. ftwclem Avatar

    Drunk and bored

  8. idkman1768 Avatar

    Yes, honestly? I just needed a lay.

  9. amnijahazemann_ Avatar

    Absolutely. All my online dating is a desperate attempt to fuck with someone. Before I met my husband I couldn’t say I was really attracted to anyone in any way.

  10. Dr__Pheonx Avatar

    Yes. I was married to him.

  11. Sonyabean23 Avatar

    No, if there’s not an emotional and physical attraction (the emotional attraction usually makes them more physically attractive to me) I can’t do it. I have zero interest.

  12. imjustalilbot Avatar

    I was tricked into feeling like I owed it to them.

  13. Banana_ChipsChoc Avatar

    never had sex before, but i’ve made out with men I wasn’t attracted to simply because I really needed to satisfy my sexual desires.

  14. IAmMellyBitch Avatar

    Yes… It was more of a pity fuck. I was feeling bad for the guy.