Have you ever leave a relationship where you had doubts about your feelings and then regretted it? How did you manage? Or did you stay and was happily surprised?

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   AutoModerator

   June 3, 2025

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   Hi,

   I (30F) am in a relationship with my bf (30M) for 7 months. Overall we are doing great and I recently met his family.

   He is more the avoidant style and we talked today about him being distant since his family left because he acknowledges that he has waves sometimes of him not being certain of his feelings/the intensity or just being afraid of the relationship stopping/not working.
   That in general he is good but he never was in a relationship when he was actually desired or that was healthy. I am the first gf he presented to his family.

   I don’t know if it is more about his fear of vulnerability like he says or just that he is not that into me to see long-term.
   We had a talk but now he needs time to process things

   So I am wondering to have some of your thoughts

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   nomnomyourpompoms

   June 3, 2025

   He opened up to you. That’s a big deal, but don’t make a big deal out of it. It means he trusts you. Respect him and let him process.