Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Granted, it requires a partner who is equally concerned with your pleasure. He takes care of me first, so there is no sexual frustration on my part.
It doesn’t always happen, but when it does, it gives me such an ego boost. If it’s immediately “fuck” as a reaction when going in, and all it takes is a few thrusts, I feel like the sexiest, most goddess-like woman on the planet (albeit, I don’t know if it’s warranted).
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EDIT: I’ve never mentioned this to him. If it happens, he apologizes for going too fast. I’m tempted to say it, but I don’t know how he would take it. š
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There was this girl that only needed 8 to 10 pumps from me without a condom until she climaxed, she was bat-shit insane tho.
God bless her.
Edit: she’s suffered from legitimate schizophrenia, due to a severe traumatic head injury, she was in a car crash as a teenager.
Now that I remember, she used to tell me that sometimes my face would morph into strangers or someone else’s at random, maybe this happened during sex as well, so that might have been a factor.
Yes , agreed . 1000% correct this is great and feels great.
Yes. This. If he goes on too long, my performance anxiety creeps in. I wonder if itās because Iām not good enough.
They donāt call me the 32 second man for no reason!
Wish more had this mindset
100% agreed. When it goes on for a long time well after I’ve had an orgasm, really hurts the ego like he isnāt enjoying himself.
I absolutely agree. Makes you feel like you’re the hottest woman alive – IF they (like you said) also care about your pleasure quite a bit.
Finishing fast does not mean that it’s ‘over’, sometimes, that’s just when it gets even better š
Damn, wish my last situationship was like this. I only lasted like, less than 2 mins inside her and she messaged me after a week or so and said
“Can you at least give me 10 minutes? Else it’s a waste of my time”
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Not that itās ever happened to me, but Iāve had friends describe it as an amazing compliment when I win the race – I mean when other people win the race.
So I’ve actually read a thread about this. Apparently there’s a whole shitload of women that actually don’t mind, because it makes them feel this way. They take it as a compliment. Now I think back, as an older married guy now, and I know I’ve given out my fair share of “compliments” ššš¤£š¤£š¤£.
feeeeeelt. Sometimes I take it as a challenge and he gets so annoyed with me š
like listen, take a walk and come back in 15 min for round two, Iāll be here
I low-key get mad at my boyfriend when he apologizes for āonlyā lasting a few minutes.
I agree with your sentiment with feeling sexy when they come fast. I love knowing that I can make him cum fast or tease him to make him last a little longer
Iām in a similar situation only I have the opposite reaction, very frustratedā¦ I am going to have to think about this more like you! So thank you for sharing
Iām about even asking for ages
Tbf, I don’t mind because I can’t orgasm from penetration so it’s mostly for them (not that it doesn’t feel good) . As long as they take care of me first, I honestly don’t care if it lasts 2 seconds. Too long and I get bored.
Iāve always thought of that, didnāt understand why many wanted someone that would last hours or whatever, but I get it being irritating since they donāt end up being pleasured.
Nah fr though
The sooner my partner finishes, the more I take it as a compliment š I just feel bad when he apologises because why? Why are you apologising when you say its cos it feels good? Obviously it feeds my ego so you apologising feels insulting š¤£š
I tell him personally how good it makes me feel, especially cos he used to get embarrassed. Now it just made me feel even more big headed because when I tell him he goes all blushy [and he’s not an easy blusher ahaha, this is the only time I ever seen him go tomato]
Oh I feel this and preach it all the time!
QUICK BABY COME TO ME FAST AS YOU CAN!!
makes me feel glorious , truly happy
This would explain why a number of partners are disappointed I don’t finish.
lol YES. Iām so horned up that I last maybe less than a minute once heās inside me so Iām all for his quick finish too š
i wish i had this omg
Agreed
I do actually find it so attractive. Especially when they get all flustered and apologises.
I remember reading a post on reddit many years back of how the guy came just from kissing and seeing her undress. I’ve always craved for that level of authority ever since.
100%, I wish men more easily believed me when I would tell them it’s very complementary to me (even if I’m not even the reason why)š
My wife told me this once. I thought she was just trying to make me feel better. Now to hear someone else say it, I do feel better.
Thatās great!
But thereās also this huge social pressure for men to delay orgasm and perform, right?
Agreed!
And it feels the same as a man! My last partner cums super easy and it was so hot and such an ego boost to see how much she was enjoying herself
I feel you absolutely should mention this to him. I’ve had issues attempting to last longer that eventually gave me complexes that kept me from even getting hard because I was mindfucking myself about it. Knowing that you feel satisfied and feel complimented by it would probably put his mind at ease.
>I don’t care what anybody says.
>Throwaway for obvious reasons.
I read enough.
What if I have the opposite problem where I last too long and she wants short lol. Not bragging just most men want to last and pace themselvesĀ
i once had a very clearly established hook up in the dead of night, where the guy lasted less than 5 minutes and then did NOTHING for me, just laid there. I asked him to do stuff and he refused. And when I asked him to leave he got offended I didnāt want to āchillā with him and called me cold hearted, said he could be up for round 2 if we got food tho. No he wasnāt offering to go out or to get the food, he wanted to eat what I had at home.
I agree. But when youāre really worked up and he is a one and done kind of guy and lasts for 4-5 thrusts itās frustrating š
Mention it to him! You’ll boost his ego in return or at least make him feel less bad about it.
Yes! As long as they keep it in a few seconds after they finish, we will both be happy š