I know by the title it sounds dramatic but genuinely I don’t know what to do anymore. For context I wear a 32 D bra. First off none of the clothes are built for a woman like me I have a small waist long legs and a butt but not really a chest at least not enough to fill out literally anything. Every dress that is long enough is baggy on my chest even when it fits my waist. So that’s problem number one. Then dating and relationships, everyone says I have a stellar personality that in fun to be around and I light up the room but everytime I end up with guys wanting to hangout but just be friends and they’ve all said they just want someone with a bigger chest long term. My current partner has always said he’s a boob guy but that he liked my chest just always wished they were bigger. He doesn’t like the idea of a boob job because then it’s not really me and there can be complications with it and maintenance for that. I have thought about a boob job before meeting him just because everyone has said that and I don’t fill out clothes. But I say my life is being ruined because me and my partner both watch porn and it makes me feel bad that all he watches and likes are bigger chests and all his female friends have bigger chests and are always asking if he wants to see theirs and I just know I will genuinely never be able to give him that. So genuinely I’m lost on what to do here
Having a small chest is ruining my life
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I’m a 42K. I’ve been as small as a 34C. I’m one of the only people I know who doesn’t want bigger or smaller breasts.
There’s pros and cons to every boob size.
I highly recommend going on Etsy and getting custom fit clothing. You can get dresses, shirts, and bras all custom to your measurements.
Respectfully, I would advise you to find a different boyfriend. You want somebody who thinks you are beautiful and perfect, just as you are.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are natural and it sounds like you have a nice shape. Even if you were a 32A you would still be just fine!! 32D sounds like an ample size but if comparing you to a porn star…
You don’t want to be compared to a porn star or compete with that look. Please be open to finding a guy who respects you for your values and heart and who thinks you are just perfect. ❤️❤️
Multiple guys have told you they want a bigger chest long term?! Stop giving these men the time of day, immediately. Focus on loving yourself and respect yourself enough to only spend time with people who respect you. For every female body type in the world there are men who dig it. Men who openly criticize your body are trying to destroy your confidence, don’t allow it.
Also, get your outfits altered, or learn basic alterations yourself. Having clothes that fit will help your confidence.
A D cup is not a small chest.
Girl how old are you ? Titties should out shine personality ANYTIME ! If yur face pretty , you obv got SOME titties and yur legs long ? Girrl yu sound BEAUTIFUL ! Yu just need to surround yourself with better folks which is hard im trying to do the same thing but its def worth it. also wtf why his friends wanna show them their boobs ? 🚩🚩🚩🚩
People are telling you to your face that your breasts are too small?
I don’t see how old you are but I feel certain you have many years of potential happiness before you and I also think there are lots of guys out there who will like you for you.
I do understand leaving and breaking up always sound easier than actuality, but it’s amazing how things come together once you’ve made a decision.
I understand it’s hard to think about change. Please be open to the idea that there might be someone better out there for you.
Welcome to the itty bitty titty committee!! I am a small chested woman myself! Same as you. Embrace it, ours don’t sag 😜!!
First of all, your boyfriend informing you that he wishes you have more is quite backhanded, that’s not exactly what anyone wants to hear from their partner. Secondly, you are placing all of your self worth on your chest. There are definitely clothes that will make you feel more confident. Also 32 D is by no means a small chest. It all depends on how it appears on your body, my cup and band is smaller and I feel like I have too much chest. But again it shouldn’t matter, tailor your clothes at a shop if needed, find things you actually like from higher end shops.
Chin up.
There’s plenty of guys that like small chests out there
Your mans a d@#k head and clearly breast size isn’t his issue!! And really I don’t feel is your issue!! I’m newly confident because a lady’s perceived interest in me made me take a healthy objective look at myself and after sick of constant pain after a lifetime of self loathing and overthinking with new found eyes I can pick out low esteem from a running distance!! Contrary to the admitted self loathing did I say destructive behavior as well I have lived a charmed life have had some quality luck with ladies and even if I hadn’t it wouldn’t diminish my love for them but big little short or tall breast size to me is a myth none at all or back busting it’s your aura men and I am particularly attracted to but I am a man and am superficially but I’m a super well preserved middle aged dude with a joi di vivre and if you super conscious of what you deem as small breast you e never had a true and good lay have a swell night
Maaaan I love small boobs. I swear I only hook up with girls with smaller chests now.
I’ll appreciate and enjoy boobs if they’re there, but it’s far from my preference.
How is it possible that with a D cup you “Can’t fill out” clothing???
Nobody should be judging you based on your chest size. There’s so much more to a woman and it should not factor into a relationship. As far as the bedroom, many men are arf turned on by legs, thighs, rear end, and more.
Lots of models have small breasts and look drop dead gorgeous! You be you. Not for him but for yourself. Lots of good guys out there.