Hi everyone, I (18f) have been dating my bf (19m) for about two months now. H’s a virgin and I have a bit of experience already, but I’ve never been with a virgin before. I don’t make fun of him for being a virgin or make it a problem at all, In fact I’m happy that I’ll be his first time. We’ve been having a few sleepovers lately and have French kissed and touched eachother but never really done much because we’ve been waiting until he is ready, until the other day I was sleeping over at his house and we took it to the next level, I sucked him off and he touched me down there and he told me he was thinking about having sex with me soon and I told him I was looking forward to it.
Tl;dr; Can anyone tell me how I can approach this I want to make him feel loved and comfortable , I understand that he isn’t going to be a sex god the first time and that’s okay I don’t mind that. I just don’t want him to be nervous but I don’t really know how exactly to go about this since I’ve never been on the teaching side of things . I would love some detailed advice or maybe if u guys are comfortable sharing ur own experiences that would be helpful too. Thank you 😊😊
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When he’s fucking you, tell him how you want him to fuck you.
My boyfriend was also a virgin when we met, the best advice I have that my boyfriend to this day says he is thankful for is telling him what to do during. I also initiated it the night of, don’t make him initiate it because some men, especially when virgins, are scared they will make you uncomfortable. now that it’s set in stone that he wants to have sex, definitely initiate it. During it, tell him what positions to do or just take complete control (cowgirl or reverse). It will definitely help take the pressure off him
Tell him how much you want him to cum. Honestly, easing off the pressure to make you orgasm will make him super comfortable. After that first time, a lot of the pressure will go away and then you can start teaching him how to get you off.