i’m only upset at how friendly he spoke to me now knowing he has a girlfriend. “ohhh, but you’re so pretty and cool, it’s impossible that you don’t have a boyfriend yet!” and wanting to call me at night to play videogames or things like that which i stupidly thought were hints that he wanted me. i don’t think he’s all that bad though, the topic of love lives came up so i asked him and he was honest right away, telling me their whole story and on. i just can’t help but feel so weird, almost like i was being lead on as this whole one week of talking he had a girlfriend?!?
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Pretty odd that he didn’t make you aware for a week, and that he’s calling you at night to play games.
He may not have had any intimate intentions and was just wanting to be friends, but he certainly was wanting validation from another girl that wasnt his partner and that’s a red flag imo.