We met last September and dated for three months. It was a bit rocky.
My anxious attachment style really got in the way, and knowing what I know now, I would do things differently.
I was insecure and wanted it to work too badly.
I was emotionally involved, he wasn’t.
We haven’t been in contact for two months – he didn’t respond to my last message. I told him we could still meet, but only if he was genuinely interested.
And yes, I know.
No answer is an answer.
Still, I’d like to talk to him again.
I’m just sad and can’t let go.
An emotional dependency – this what if? is killing me.
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Go to sleep read a book go outside don’t think about it
Break your old habits and make new ones.
Do you wake at 9, and drink coffee in front of the tv?
Get up at 7:30 and take your coffee on a walk. Go see a view that makes you happy.
Find a new cool hobby to try out. Revisit an interest you used to have when you were young. Do something new, in a new place, with new people.
Date someone else.