Hey guys, before I make another post about my partner, I wanna know what are the qualities of a narcissist that you could find in a partner? Because I think my partner is one.
He kept saying that he finds me annoying and boring but he still loves me. When I wanna discuss about something, he always said that I’m trying to argue when I don’t even raised my voice. Hes always the one who always raise his voice, say harsh words to me and keep asking to change to a different person.
He said that I :-
– That I have a monotone and I should change it. He said he hates when I talk normally.
– my scoliosis is a burden to him and he don’t wanna help me.
– when I cry he said he don’t know what to do with it and ask me to shut me and not to talk back
– when I have a panic attack he said that’s my fault and yelled that I should remove it.
After 4 years of relationship, suddenly he said I’m annoying (bad way)and he don’t even wanna talk to me at all and he said he’s slowly lost his spark.
The annoying part he said he blames me and he said I that he felt that because I never change my voice.
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he sounds like an absolute piece of shit to be honest, you deserve so much better.
That’s fucked up. Without a doubt your best friend shouldn’t act this way.
I think its irrelevant if he is narcissist or not. He is clearly not a good partner for you – just leave him. Its not your job to fix him.