We (Both 17) have been together for around 2 years at this point. We recently went through something, one where my codependency was hurting them, while they were going through depression. This led to them losing the spark for me. This has been going on for about a month.
During the course of the month, I gave them space, which I believe wasn’t the best move as it allowed us to grow, but apart.
We talked, and they still love me very much, but is just having a really hard time bringing the spark back.
TL; DR, They love me, but is unsure of whether they should continue with me because of these unsure feelings.They want to be with me, for life, bit is just unsure of the spark they feel.
What should we do? What steps can we take to get the spark back?
I am planning to lessen the space and spend time with them. We can just listen to music and not talk at all. What do you think, is that the right move to do?
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that isn’t a real thing. they lost feelings. they still love you but they don’t want to be with you anymore because love isn’t enough for a healthy and happy relationship. i know 2 years is a long time but you’re only 17 and you have plenty of life ahead of you. let this relationship go and focus on continuing to grow as you enter adulthood and the next chapter of your life