My boyfriend claims to be heterosexual, but he has this fantasy. Now I’m no longer attracted to him, and I’m confused. I know it’s normal for men to experience pleasure near the prostate… but sucking another penis… does that make him bisexual? any advice on how to deal with this?
Heterosexual men… is it normal for you to have a fetish for sucking another penis with your girlfriend?
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WHAT
He’s definitely not completely straight, you deal with it by acting the same because it’s not a big deal? Let him suck a dick if he wants, why not
Yes, this would make him bisexual.
As long as he doesn’t look him in the eyes while he’s doing it or say he loves him then it’s not gay. Me and my buddies suck each other’s ding dongs all the time and we’re straight asf.
I’d be turned off, if my bf wanted to suck cock I’d probably laugh at him 😂
I mean, yeah, he’s probably bisexual.
Are you not attracted to him because he’s bi or because he’s lying to himself/to you?
This would make him more than likely bi. If this doesn’t float your boat and you are not attracted to him anymore might be time to call it quits. Don’t force yourself into something you don’t want.
Hetero men don’t have that fetish, your man is bi.
He’s at least bi-curious and in denial. Ass play is one thing (I’m not into that but to each his own) but fantasizing about oral sex with another man means he wants to explore that side. I guess it’s “normal” to have fantasies but the type of fantasy defines a person sexually.
It means he might be curious about exploring his sexuality, if he mentioned it to you it also most likely means he felt comfortable enough to bring it up to you !
I would try to not make him feel bad about being open about it. I understand you are no longer attracted to him but him being into men doesn’t change him as a person !
And a fantasies is also different from being bisexual, maybe it’s just a one time thing, being he is attracted to the idea of sucking a dick ? Like you might have some wild fantasy too ! I would suggest you talk more about it with him
I think it’s ridiculous to not be attracted to him over that biphobia is real I guess
Nope. I can literally find men attractive because that’s how it works, but none of it is sexual.
Like Ice T said, “That makes you gay.”
Your boyfriend is not straight.
He’s bi.
That being said, it’s only gay if the balls touch
It’s okay if he says “no homo” after doing it.
Bi men can’t even be safe in their relationships
You’re definitely not a _phobe for finding this revelation…unappealing
Definitely NOT normal for straight men to have this fantasy. If this isn’t a guy you could see yourself marrying before you found this out, I’d say break it off. If he was but isn’t anymore, you should address it. I don’t think he would have divulged such a personal fantasy if it wasn’t genuine. Maybe he’s bi and you two should see other people with more common interests (and fantasies).
This doesn’t mean he’s a bad person, I mean he likes/wants things in his mouth! That just makes him a cock suckers!
Yes he’s Bi or Bi curious! And there are no heterosexual men/straight men that want to put another man’s penis in their mouth. The thought of that is just revolting.!
Dudes just bi
No not normal
Yeah…no. I’m pretty sure I’ve never fantasized about sucking a ding dong. Good luck tho
Tell him he’s self-discovering to do and that you need a real man.
Straight men don’t want a penis anywhere inside them, mouth included
No
What about sucking a transgendered cock?