I have to reluctantly admit that I find myself to be a 5 or 6 on an average day with maybe a 7 on my best day on a scale of 1 to 10 (even when I’m thinner and times in my life I have been closer to my ideal bodyshape). Luckily my husband who I consider more attractive to me and easily a 10 thinks I am a 10 in the looks department thank goodness(I consider my husband to have beautiful spiritual energy and who has both inner and outer attractiveness).
Now probably a 5/10, when I was in my 20s and more fit a 6/10. I will toot my horn on this. I’ve always dated 9/10 and 10/10 women. I married a woman that is so attractive people stop us to just tell my wife she is stunning. And that is why I tell all incels “I promise it is you and not the women or your genetics. You can make this work”
I’d say…4.5/10. Between rosacea, sagging tits, belly fat/flab, facial hair that did not all get lasered off, and keratosis pilaris on my arms and legs, there’s definitely room for improvement. But my husband still wants to fuck me, so…meh? I’m not planning on entering any beauty pageants.
I always thought of myself as unattractive but I keep catching women staring at me and acting flustered, and get comments on my looks. So I guess I’m good.
Average 5/10. Not bad. There are definitely more handsome men out there and lots of less attractive ones too.
When I make an effort, I scrub up pretty well. Up to a 7, maybe even an 8/10 when dressed in a tuxedo or good suit.
4/10 at best. Women at work avoid me, women at the bar don’t talk to me, women I used to be friends with/date when younger don’t talk to me. No, I didn’t do anything. I’m known as a nice guy that minds my business. If/when something does happen I usually don’t even know what to do
I don’t know. I apparently miss really obvious hints and passes.
A friend of mine got break enlargement surgery and she called me saying she was recovering and needed help washing her body in the shower because she couldn’t move her arms, so I just went over there and helped then left.
Other female acquaintances let me know months later that I was idiotically oblivious
I think I am a solid 7/10, sometimes I drop to 5/10 and sometimes I get to 8/10, it depends on how groomed I am and what clothes I wear, but if he take it as face-value then solid 7.
I feel 6/10 but all of my female friends keep saying otherwise.
Doesn’t matter though, my wife, that I feel she is a 8/10 (no make-up, whatever clothes, house version etc) and a 10/10 at times, thinks I am more attractive than her and that’s all that matters.
Attractive? Physically 5-6. As a person, i try to maintain the best quality of character that I can. To me that’s what really makes a person attractive. Looks fade but a good person will always be a good person.
Physically attractive, i’d say I’m a 3-4, 5 at most on a day i try and look really nice for something. I smile a lot, it’s not the prettiest smile, my top front teeth are disproportionately huge, one of my teeth is stained but it’s hard to see. I have a funny lookin’ weak chin, too. It doesn’t bother me, though. My personality irl is upbeat and i love people a lot and listen more than i speak, i have a lot of friends and family, and i have someone who thinks I’m still very beautiful in all ways.
It’s a very “at least i have my personality” cope, but my appearance isn’t something I’m ever hung up on.
Quite reserved, if you don’t know me, bookish too. Love good dance and electronic music. Nights out with women throwing themselves at me can be exhausting, ruins the vibe with unnecessary drama. Older now, great relationship, had some good times, no complaints.
I’m blissfully ignorant to how others see me, because I like me and just try to be happy. If someone finds me attractive, I’m always confused because I honestly think I’m a big dork.
at least a 6/10. i’m a redhead and i was told there are ugly ginger’s and pretty ginger’s. i’m one of the pretty ones. other people say im a 7-8 but i deny that heavily
I’m, like, a two or a three. I’m a bigger person (about 170lbs and 5’2”). I have a lot of medical conditions that don’t allow me to lose weight and it’s a struggle sometimes. My bf keeps telling me that I’m pretty and stuff, but I genuinely don’t think so. On top of my mental illness, it doesn’t help my score lmao
I don’t think I’m attractive at all. I would rate myself maybe a 2 out of 10. My wife, who is absolutely stunningly gorgeous, thinks I’m “hot” or “handsome” and I’m grateful for that, but, yeah, I just can’t see what she sees
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6 maybe 7 out of 10
Attractive to myself. Not sure about others!
Honestly? I don’t. I like to try to think I am a little but if we’re being honest? 0% I have a mirror thank you very much.
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Confident enough to say 8.5/10.
8 – 9 there’s always room for improvement
I don’t really like rating myself or others, but I am really not popular. So…I would guess bordering on normal?
Others find me very attractive. I don’t have an opinion myself.
Probably a 7
I’m a solid 5 without context
6.7/10
Solid 4
I have to reluctantly admit that I find myself to be a 5 or 6 on an average day with maybe a 7 on my best day on a scale of 1 to 10 (even when I’m thinner and times in my life I have been closer to my ideal bodyshape). Luckily my husband who I consider more attractive to me and easily a 10 thinks I am a 10 in the looks department thank goodness(I consider my husband to have beautiful spiritual energy and who has both inner and outer attractiveness).
Attractive enough to pull 2 baddies
Mosquitoes love me.
-10/10 ig
Not really at all, but from how my bf reacts when he sees me after work not as bad as I see myself 😂
Very hot
…5,8/6 out of 10
1 or 2 points below how attractive most people think I am.
Meh at best. I look better in the dark. Like really dark dark.
Well physically, I’m disgusting, but at least I have an absolutely terrible, shitty personality to make me even less attractive.
I always feel attractive after a shower, then three days later I feel shit about me till I get another shower.
on a good day ig like 7.5
I’d say at least a 4.5. 5.5 if worked out.
I used to be a solid 7 or 8. 65 years on earth has left me a strong 2. I am still breathing, so I’ll take it.
2/10
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Probably a 5. I don’t think I’m ugly or beautiful. I’d make a good background person in a movie. I think I just look like a regular person.
3/10 unattractive
So attractive some people can’t even look at me…
1/10
7/10. I love my shape now, nvm the face.
Strong 4/10 most of the time
I’m ok but wife is hotter
On a normal day in my baggy clothes and no makeup? a 6. when I glam up? an 8
Pretty attractive I’d say probably like an 8.5/10
When I’m slim and sober, not too bad and probably a solid 7.5-8.
On the drink, bloated and bloodshot, I might scrape a 4.
Honestly I think I’m pretty hot 💁♀️
Probably like a 12 out 5. I dunno
I’d say about 6/10.
Now probably a 5/10, when I was in my 20s and more fit a 6/10. I will toot my horn on this. I’ve always dated 9/10 and 10/10 women. I married a woman that is so attractive people stop us to just tell my wife she is stunning. And that is why I tell all incels “I promise it is you and not the women or your genetics. You can make this work”
I’ve been told I’m a solid 7/10. So I’m gonna say 6/10 to be safe
I am easily 9/10 when no one’s around.
I base my opinion on the opinion of others and how I have been treated. I am one ugly motherfucker.
I’d say…4.5/10. Between rosacea, sagging tits, belly fat/flab, facial hair that did not all get lasered off, and keratosis pilaris on my arms and legs, there’s definitely room for improvement. But my husband still wants to fuck me, so…meh? I’m not planning on entering any beauty pageants.
Is say 6, but 7 when young.
Look, I’m funny, alright?
10
I’m not unattractive is the best I can put it.
Not attractive lol
210 wouldn’t date
When I was fit in my 20s id say an 8.5. Now id say 5 as an overweight 39yr old.
Scale of 1-10, 10 being the most attractive? I’m -30. I’m a disgusting blob and hideous.
I think I’m a solid 8/10. However I like to think my personality and intelligence makes me a 10/10.
Not.
Like a 4 out of 10 I guess.
But I found a wife. So I won the game regardless 🤷🏼♂️
About 7 on a good day.
A swamp troll on an average one 🤷🏻♀️
I attract bugs not sure abt ppl
8/10
Idk people tell me
Average without makeup, maybe slightly above average with makeup
I’d say I’m a solid 3/10
I always thought of myself as unattractive but I keep catching women staring at me and acting flustered, and get comments on my looks. So I guess I’m good.
Average 5/10. Not bad. There are definitely more handsome men out there and lots of less attractive ones too.
When I make an effort, I scrub up pretty well. Up to a 7, maybe even an 8/10 when dressed in a tuxedo or good suit.
Depends on the audience:)
I would catch women eyeing me every once in a while
Im not at all. 0/10
I’m very handsome if the person is blind 🤌🏽🤌🏽
Not at all. I’m a chubby, strange looking critter.
As a fat guy rn I’m like a 4.5/5 but when/once I’m back in shape I’m at least an 8 no bap ☝️😤
more than what people think, and i like it this way
Sold 3/10, not fat but I’m.only 5ft .5
5 out of 10 ridiculously average or a bit below average on my bad days lol
5? Maybe? I’m super funny though
Potential 9: (genetics)
Autism Cap: 7.5
A girl told me that she would date me if I wasn’t fat. So I got that going for me
About 4/10
I’m an acquired taste lmao 😅
Well,a female friend said a while ago I’m 9/10,but I think she was just being polite/sweet.I would rate myself to 8 tops…🤷♂️
4/10 at best. Women at work avoid me, women at the bar don’t talk to me, women I used to be friends with/date when younger don’t talk to me. No, I didn’t do anything. I’m known as a nice guy that minds my business. If/when something does happen I usually don’t even know what to do
Not anymore
Cleaned up, 6-7/10
Goblin mode, 3
I don’t know. I apparently miss really obvious hints and passes.
A friend of mine got break enlargement surgery and she called me saying she was recovering and needed help washing her body in the shower because she couldn’t move her arms, so I just went over there and helped then left.
Other female acquaintances let me know months later that I was idiotically oblivious
I’m easy on the eyes, I would say.
I’m fuggggggggly af, but hey, I’m doing my best.
Not very, unfortunately
I’ve been told that I’m attractive and handsome by people…..but this is not what life has taught me.
Like a 5 but at least my partner loves me
1/10. 3/10 on a good day if you look at me in terms of looks
A 4 on my best day.
A solid 4
4/10
1 on a good day.
Used to be ok. But now that I’m getting older I would say not very attractive if I’m being honest.
8/10? – I’m athletic, but not sure how it translates to attractiveness. My confidence doesn’t help me either.
I think I am a solid 7/10, sometimes I drop to 5/10 and sometimes I get to 8/10, it depends on how groomed I am and what clothes I wear, but if he take it as face-value then solid 7.
I feel 6/10 but all of my female friends keep saying otherwise.
Doesn’t matter though, my wife, that I feel she is a 8/10 (no make-up, whatever clothes, house version etc) and a 10/10 at times, thinks I am more attractive than her and that’s all that matters.
Scrubby days about a solid six makeup and shit done up a solid eight
At 30, probably like a 5/6 out of 10, I’ve just gotten somewhat fat. At 20, though, I’d have probably said like a solid 8.
I still look the same, just rounder
35 and never had a girlfriend, so I’d say I’m not at all.
Well I used to be more attractive that’s for sure
I think maybe a 6. I can look good but also like a bag lady.
Attractive? Physically 5-6. As a person, i try to maintain the best quality of character that I can. To me that’s what really makes a person attractive. Looks fade but a good person will always be a good person.
Physically attractive, i’d say I’m a 3-4, 5 at most on a day i try and look really nice for something. I smile a lot, it’s not the prettiest smile, my top front teeth are disproportionately huge, one of my teeth is stained but it’s hard to see. I have a funny lookin’ weak chin, too. It doesn’t bother me, though. My personality irl is upbeat and i love people a lot and listen more than i speak, i have a lot of friends and family, and i have someone who thinks I’m still very beautiful in all ways.
It’s a very “at least i have my personality” cope, but my appearance isn’t something I’m ever hung up on.
I think it depends on location. In my area MCOL Midwest city. I’m a 7/8. LA I’m a 3 lol.
Like a 3
I think I am actually pretty hot. But I am fat, which makes me conventionally not as attractive 😀
My grandmother says I’m a… peculiar beauty.
√-1
Terribly
I’m not so mainstream attractive that I’m a 10, but I’m not so ugly I’m a 4. I’m bout a 7.
Physically, I’m average, but I have an interesting personality 😉
Quite reserved, if you don’t know me, bookish too. Love good dance and electronic music. Nights out with women throwing themselves at me can be exhausting, ruins the vibe with unnecessary drama. Older now, great relationship, had some good times, no complaints.
I’m blissfully ignorant to how others see me, because I like me and just try to be happy. If someone finds me attractive, I’m always confused because I honestly think I’m a big dork.
at least a 6/10. i’m a redhead and i was told there are ugly ginger’s and pretty ginger’s. i’m one of the pretty ones. other people say im a 7-8 but i deny that heavily
Probably an 8 or 9 but I’m almost entirely socially inept so maybe that lowers me to a 4 on a bad day
I’m, like, a two or a three. I’m a bigger person (about 170lbs and 5’2”). I have a lot of medical conditions that don’t allow me to lose weight and it’s a struggle sometimes. My bf keeps telling me that I’m pretty and stuff, but I genuinely don’t think so. On top of my mental illness, it doesn’t help my score lmao
I don’t think I’m attractive at all. I would rate myself maybe a 2 out of 10. My wife, who is absolutely stunningly gorgeous, thinks I’m “hot” or “handsome” and I’m grateful for that, but, yeah, I just can’t see what she sees
Ugly AF
Whatever it is, subtract a couple points.
Attractive enough to get glances or approached. I also find babies and kids watching or smiling at me.
The only thing I attract is problems
I would rate myself a solid 7/10, 8 sometimes depending on various factors. My wife says I’m an 11 though so that’s all that matters!
7/10 in mirror and -3/10 in photo.
I’m nice on the inside, okay?
I have to avoid mirrors otherwise I am there for the day….
without glam a 7/8 sometimes and with glam 10
Like a 7/10 in the mirror, 3/10 in person 🫣
I’m one of the most ordinary dudes alive. And I’m thankful for it. Nothing too bad, nothing too good. Balanced as all things should be.
6/10
I’d say like a solid 6 on a good day, but my personality bumps it up to an 8 😅