I (16AFAB) live with my parents (33F and 35M). My dad’s mom (mid to late 60s) lives in Arizona, but visits Europe every year.
My mom pushes my grandma and I to have a bond, and so does my grandma. We aren’t biologically related, so that’s where that comes from. But I don’t like to be around her at all. She pinches my behind a few times every time we visit her or she visits, and she asks me every time if I have a boyfriend since I was 12, which makes me uncomfortable. Every time she pinches me, I don’t like to talk about it until she’s not around, but that’s when she leaves because she’s basically around me and the entire family the whole time she’s here, until I go to bed. Because I’m not able to talk about it until she leaves, my parents wave it off and say that it’s too late to talk about with her now that she’s gone.
She’s in Europe right now, and she wants to come visit after coming back from Europe, during the start of the school year in August, because she wants to come see the house we just got. I convinced my mom to ask her to come at a later date, but I don’t know if she said yes or no yet. But what can I do to limit interactions with her until she leaves?