Hi everyone! This is my first time posting. I’ve only ever heard of am I the asshole posts on YouTube, so I’m not really sure how this works.
I’m hoping for advice on how to make money without my husband finding out. I’m trying to save up to leave him and eventually get a divorce, but I currently have no money of my own. I’m not allowed to have a regular job, so that’s not an option.
I might be able to get a wfh job, but I have twin 9 month old babies and can’t do anything that requires being on the phone. Any ideas for income I could earn quietly and flexibly would be really appreciated.
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does he work/ let you use the car? you can maybe do delivery services like door dash when he’s out or maybe even get a medical courier job. you deliver medical supplies/ medical equipment and it pays more then door dash lol. if not you could definitely try a sales job like working for insurance or an amazon hiring employee. they’re work from home jobs
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A divorce!
Are you artistic at all? You could start up an Etsy like make jewelry or crochet stuff and sell it. Keep the stuff hidden away and while your husband is away you can take the babies with you to mail them off and keep your money that you make in a PayPal account so he doesn’t find it
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You could learn tarot or other psychic type of stuff and do email readings through a company like California Psychics. Try to find stuff that you can do with email. Maybe you could also do some kind of chat support. Prayers. Good luck and stay safe
If you’re not allowed to earn money openly, and if you aren’t given access to whatever money he earns, given that you are staying home, then you are being abused. Go to the hotline.org and read up. You can also call them to get advice.
RUN! Get a divorce! Go to your local social services and they will help you. I am very proud of you! You are strong and have balls! You will be fine, believe me! GOD will be with you. You must believe that.
Can you go to thrift store and find things to resell on eBay or do some dog walking? Best of luck!
Let’s see those toes
Why aren’t you allowed to work? What state are you in? If you get a divorce, are you in a no fault state? Will custody be 50-50? Is there any abuse? There might be attorneys that offer a “free” phone consultation, I would look u to that first to see what your rights would be.
OP do you have any family or friends who would help you leave or lend you money? You’re in an abusive marriage, and abuse escalates over time. You may not have the luxury of figuring out a secret job (with infant twins!) that allows you to actually save enough money to get away before you get caught. A one-time hand from people who care about your well-being will likely get you a lot further, and then you can get a real job and pay them back later.
Hi there!
Ignore all these creeps saying OF and anything sex related. Idk how these weirdos get here so quick.
There’s lots of options you can try. WFH options are limitless, I imagine you’d prefer that since you’re a mother of some little ones.
If you don’t want to be on the phone. You can find a job as a virtual assistant, resume writer, proofreader, or even design products like clothes through something like Shopify.
If you wanted to be out of the house briefly, meal delivery is an option. There’s a bunch of apps that you could do that with.
Other than that, any skill or specialty you have you can always advertise on Fiverr, Freelancer, or Taskrabbit. I’d choose Fiverr personally but each to their own.
Best of luck! I hope something works out for you 🫶
Sell your clam on 3rd St
Buy prepaid gift cards every time you grocery shop.
You can sell digital products online. You can do it faceless. Many people sell templates, invitations, etc on Etsy or on their online store
Why would it matter if he knew you had a job?
Take his money and leave
What you should be doing is contacting a domestic abuse organization
Just replied to someone in a thread that has a lot of suggestions for this type of situation
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Call a local DV shelter. Call all friends and family!
Sell feet pics on OF.
You can sell plasma. They have first month bonuses.
depends what country your in, will determine what you can do
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Only fans or feet finder
Call a domestic violence hotline. Ask for help to get to a shelter with your kids.
I wonder if you could say you are having play dates but really just babysit kids
I would say wait but hear me out.
Play the longer game and wait a few years unless you are in dire need. After a few years, you can file for a divorce and claim half the assets. Just wait it out.
Look up non-monetary contributions in your local state and read up on the laws around that matter.
At the end of the day, do what you think needs to be done. Just look at long term.