My wife and I married through the court 7 years ago, we have a three year old now and at the time we had just got a home so the repairs hindered the wedding. Many good things came from that though, and now my wife can stay home with our daughter as she grows to school age. However when weddings are brought up or we get invited my wife does feel sorry we didn’t even take some photos. I dont know how to do this without making it too cheap or too outlandish. I love the “1980’s Hong Kong wedding”. Were mexican and maybe a mexican version of these sounds cute, but do i take someone with us? Or hire a photographer to where im going? We live close to Chicago which has little village and china town as options. Or a nice vacation and small photoshoot (maybe difficult to plan the photographer part). Or simply planning a nice vows renewal with “make up” wedding?