Rather than say what to do , I’ll tell you what NOT to do from experience lol
Don’t self medicate with drugs and alcohol
Don’t try to get with someone just to take your mind off them
Don’t keep pics and videos of you together
Don’t lurk on social media
Don’t spend time with people who are going through the same thing and go out to clubs etc
Do let the emotions pass, hit the gym, eat healthy, stay productive. Time heals all , best
What the other commenter said, live your life again. I don’t know if this your thing, but try to meet new people, absolutely not to date (unless in the future it end up being that way), but just to put yourself out there. Go to festivals, shows, the fair, concerts, movies, anywhere and everywhere!
Let yourself feel the hurt. Cry, rage, feel. Lean on the people you love, friends, family etc. and do things you enjoy to take your mind off of it when needed. I would avoid doing things that make you feel more lonely, like watching a show by yourself, where you’ll have too much time to think about how you could be spending it with someone else. Do activities like going for walks or working out, or reading / gaming , or anything else that takes all of your mental focus to keep your thoughts from spiraling
There’s literally over 8 BILLION people on this planet. Don’t let your life go to waste over ONE.
If soul mates are real, the odds of you finding YOUR soul mate out of 8 billion people in the FIRST place you look is almost impossible. Chances are, your soul mate is still out there looking for you and you’re wasting time obsessing over the first wrong choice.
Get up, dust yourself off, remember who you are and how awesome it is to be you, and get back out there.
something that genuinely helps me get over someone is whenever i remember them i say “i hope shes doing fine” and i try to move on by thinking about something else, i find no benefit of being hateful and say “oh i hope they die”, hate wont make u forget someone, itll make u remember them more
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By loving yourself and living your life again.
Rather than say what to do , I’ll tell you what NOT to do from experience lol
Don’t self medicate with drugs and alcohol
Don’t try to get with someone just to take your mind off them
Don’t keep pics and videos of you together
Don’t lurk on social media
Don’t spend time with people who are going through the same thing and go out to clubs etc
Do let the emotions pass, hit the gym, eat healthy, stay productive. Time heals all , best
What the other commenter said, live your life again. I don’t know if this your thing, but try to meet new people, absolutely not to date (unless in the future it end up being that way), but just to put yourself out there. Go to festivals, shows, the fair, concerts, movies, anywhere and everywhere!
Let yourself feel the hurt. Cry, rage, feel. Lean on the people you love, friends, family etc. and do things you enjoy to take your mind off of it when needed. I would avoid doing things that make you feel more lonely, like watching a show by yourself, where you’ll have too much time to think about how you could be spending it with someone else. Do activities like going for walks or working out, or reading / gaming , or anything else that takes all of your mental focus to keep your thoughts from spiraling
Assume they are dead, a ghost, move on.
Limit contact and social media stalking. It keeps the wound open
Time
They don’t care about you. They forgot about you. You are nothing more than a faded thought to them, barely a memory.
Over 8 billion people in the world gng 🥀
Don’t stay home moping around get out with friends go places do things stay busy. Time really does heal all wounds.
There’s literally over 8 BILLION people on this planet. Don’t let your life go to waste over ONE.
If soul mates are real, the odds of you finding YOUR soul mate out of 8 billion people in the FIRST place you look is almost impossible. Chances are, your soul mate is still out there looking for you and you’re wasting time obsessing over the first wrong choice.
Get up, dust yourself off, remember who you are and how awesome it is to be you, and get back out there.
something that genuinely helps me get over someone is whenever i remember them i say “i hope shes doing fine” and i try to move on by thinking about something else, i find no benefit of being hateful and say “oh i hope they die”, hate wont make u forget someone, itll make u remember them more