I’m a 29M, living in Bangalore, working as a AI Engineer in a Fintech startup. Two years ago, I met my girlfriend and everything seemed perfect at first. 8-9 months into the relationship, I bought a bike to give us freedom to commute in this city. Soon after that, I come up with idea of making reels, thinking it would be just a fun weekend hobby. Little did I know, it would become the centerpiece of our lives.
She quickly became the face of our content while I stayed behind the camera, and before long, what was once a hobby turned into a relentless chase for likes and followers. At first, I thought we could manage it by creating a couple account or going back to private life, but she was all in, and soon, every outing was about capturing the perfect photo or video. It reached a point where even on my birthday trip to Goa, she promised not to argue, but every single day turned into a fight about photos. She’d get upset if I didn’t take the perfect shot or if I suggested we just enjoy the moment without filming it.
In the end, I realized I didn’t sign up for a life where content creation overshadowed genuine connection. I wanted a partner, not a brand. For anyone out there feeling the same way, remember that real relationships thrive off-camera, and sometimes, stepping away from the spotlight is the best thing you can do for yourself.
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