I’m recently a week from getting out of a long talking stage with a girl and I’m still struggling to get closure and let go even though she has already moved on. What helped you get closure and walk away?
How did you get closure?
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I’m recently a week from getting out of a long talking stage with a girl and I’m still struggling to get closure and let go even though she has already moved on. What helped you get closure and walk away?
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Nothing, you just move on and hopefully learn from the experience.
Is talking phase what us old timers called “dating”?
bro, sadly, sometimes you dont get closure. the closure should be that you know she moved on. might take some time – just be kind to yourself, take some self care days, by yourself or w/ the guys, find a hobby, and just move on. much love and good luck, buddy 🍻
Goodbye is closure. That’s the end.
They take a piece out of you when they leave sometimes. The good news is that you can fill that piece up with whatever you’ve learned. Don’t need to spring a thousand leaks. Just keep patching yourself up and keep marching forward. You’ll become a better man who they won’t want to leave high and dry soon enough.
As in…. You just talked?
What is there to get over?
The closure as you call it is that it’s done and finished. Life is not a film, and everything doesn’t get tied up with a nice neat bow. Just just got to move forward. Good luck.
Wtf is a talking stage. You were just chatting with a girl and she lost interest and now you need closure? Rofl
I stopped caring about closure which became my closure.
“closure is a myth”
Sleep with a bunch of other women.
https://youtu.be/9mbp0DugfCA?si=2i00jQXbNHVXjC_X
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“Closure is a made up thing by Steven Spielberg to sell movie tickets.” – Bojack Horseman
Thats the funniest thing.
You give yourself closure homie. No one can give that to you.
She could give you a 6 page paper on why it ended and cool… but that doesn’t change the fact that at the end of the day you’re going to have to wake up and make peace with it.
Take time to heal. Learn from the mistakes. Get back out there whenever you’re ready.
Life goes on!
If she aint fighting for you then she aint the one for you
By internalizing the fact that I don’t really need it.
You got closure, she moved on. You just need to accept it’s over, take a break from dating, and move on.
It’s over.
There’s your closure
You don’t you move on
You’ll probably get closure after her next relationship goes up in flames.
She’ll call to talk about it then…….