How did you know when you were ready to move in with your partner and how did the discussion come up?

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Who initiated the conversation, was there hesitation on anyone’s end and is it a red flag for the fate of the relationship if someone isn’t ready yet?

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  1. BeeWitchtt Avatar

    we spent a lot of time together, we started leaving clothes at my place so he had stuff for the morning, he had a tooth brush there, we started spending the night together and not having sex but quietly reading books in bed side by side. When he left my bed felt empty.

    I told him after his dad passed (he was in hospice and I was waiting until that was over to say something) I wanted him to move in officially– within a day we bought him a desk, set up his work computers, picked up his clothes and bathroom stuff and he moved in. We just both knew it was what we wanted.