Like the title says, what were your experiences when you were already in a long time relationship with your partner when deciding to do pursue a PhD somewhere further away or even in another country? Were you both in the field or only one? Did someone have to compromise more? Did you have to break up? Would love to hear experiences/opinions as my partner are going through the same process of choosing where to do our PhD so that we wouldn’t have to be too far apart for too long and what are the best solutions.