How did your friends group fell out?

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How did your friends group fell out?

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  1. GrandFrogPrince Avatar

    One guy came out as gay. The woman in the group thought they were dating.

    Conflict ensued.

  2. MidDayGamer Avatar

    Started with one guy in the group going all political tin-foil hat at a local bar. Kicked him out of the group, then two other guys started to follow this craziness.

    There facebook went from pics of family to what you seen on this devote crazies the last few years.

    Miss you John and Mike.

  3. Equivalent_Zone2417 Avatar

    naturally parted ways some went military, college, or straight to the work force out of highschool

  4. Pure_System9801 Avatar

    Time.

    Eventually we all graduated school and we moved to different cities. At first we all played the same games but Eventually everyone fell off

  5. TacoTuesdayyyyyyyy Avatar

    Graduated high school 4 years ago. Group is still intact although one moved away, stopped opening the group chat, and just spends time with his gf. Other one stopped talking to most of us in the group, left the chat, and unfollowed us on social media. So we don’t invite him out anymore because for some reason he stoped talking to us. Still 10/11 of us in the group and we go out once or twice a month when our schedules are free

  6. used2B3chordguitar Avatar

    We graduated and life started getting in the way.

  7. TooKoolFoU Avatar
  8. Explore_inside_ Avatar

    Growing up and getting busy. Some tried but others didn’t put much effort to keep in touch. gradually we stopped hanging out one by one.

  9. Admirable-Arrival152 Avatar

    I was trained to be silent by the group, going hours and days and weeks on end without being able to speak in conversations. One day I asked for some consideration and to be able to speak. Group member didn’t like that, started shit behind my back, and two people who she tried to turn against me asked questions and she went after them too for not immediately picking up torches and pitchforks against me.

    Then the heifer went on TikTok throwing shade since she’s got a decent following (40k-ish) and got someone to do witchcraft on us. I’m just over here trying to enjoy my steak and garlic mashed potatoes and not have all that bs

  10. Christnumber2 Avatar

    Some wanted to carry on drinking excessively whenever we met up and did something together, others including myself just got bored of that and wanted to experience more exciting things in life.

  11. justwontstfu Avatar

    Drugs. Initially the only thing we really did was drink, then a few people got into cocaine. I tried it a few times but it wasn’t for me. Soon it got to the point where half the group was heavily into cocaine and Percocet. People that weren’t doing drugs started leaving the group and it was eventually down to me and a couple others that weren’t into drugs but stuck around. Two of the biggest users were my best friends since we were kids and I didn’t feel right abandoning them. I tried to get them to clean up but it wasn’t working.

    The rest of the group eventually completely imploded when people started sleeping with or trying to sleep with each other’s wives/girlfriends. That’s when I left. All but one of them are clean now and have happy families but the group is basically done. The one guy that didn’t clean up was one of my two best friends at the time. Nobody really talks to him anymore because he’s turned into a complete shit bag.

  12. TheJediCounsel Avatar

    2023 I was the winner of our fantasy baseball league. In 2024 I drafted a brand new team and won my first 8 matchups.

    I initated a trade with one of the other teams in the league. I give up a batter Starling Marte, and I receive in return the padres starting pitcher Dylan Cease.

    Trade gets accepted. But trades take 3 days to process. And the league can vote to have a trade vetoed in extreme cases of collusion.

    So a guy not in the trade starts saying the trade was bullshit and that I’m taking advantage of a new player. Mostly no one is responding to him. But I text the commissioner of the league, and ask if I should be worried or anything. Keep in mind this is a league where I only know 3 of the other people in the league.

    He tells me not to worry about it. And the next day of course, my trade was vetoed. I call it out on the group chat, the guy who started the problems in the text chat got his dad, friend, and sister’s bf to all veto the trade

    I lose my shit and say he’s a loser who was jealous I won the league after playing less years than him. And suddenly I was the bad guy.

    The next day I post about this trade on the fantasy baseball subreddit. The responses were all in my favor saying it was bullshit to veto that trade, and that guy was being a baby.

    But, one of the comments actually said “do you think you might be in the same league as this guy?” And the linked me a thread where a guy clearly who was the one bitching in the group chat had made an account, and all the comments were saying he was a child. And he was just getting destroyed.

    So I take a picture of the thread. And then send it the fantasy baseball group chat of all his comments, and all the people telling him how wrong he was.

    And then deleted the app off my phone in protest

  13. PhoenixApok Avatar

    My Dnd group at one point turned into me, who was dating B, who was the ex wife of E, who had started dating H, who was cheating on him with S, who was dating V, who was my ex girlfriend.

    Basically a weird hexagon of 3 guys and 3 girls where active dating, past dating, or cheating was happening.

    We knew as soon as one person said the wrong thing the whole group would collapse.

  14. DarkSociety1033 Avatar

    It’s falling out right now. Bunch of drama I can’t mention but I fear things won’t mend this time.

  15. Equivalent_Memory3 Avatar

    Guy started dating a narcissist. Said narcissist declared the were in charge of the clique and ostracized anyone who wouldn’t bend a knee to them. Until they ran out of people to ostracize and then turned to abusing the core group until they were ostracized themselves.

    Lots of bad blood after the fact people sided with an abuser, and were okay with the abuse, until they were the target.

  16. trinathetruth Avatar

    One of my former friends gave HIV to everyone I know intentionally, and I moved in with someone and had to cut her out of my life. I had a baby, went to college, bought a home, and cut her out of my life. She started spying on my cellphone and got extremely jealous of my life so she used her ex, who had connections in the mafia to destroy my life for fun and destroy my reputation. Friends aren’t worth it. I’m trying to rebuild but I need help, no one will hire me because of her.