I’ve been seeing a guy for a little bit now. After we do it, he stays hard for multiple rounds. Even after coming, he is hard for 30+ minutes.
Is this normal? I thought he may be taking testosterone or other meds because I haven’t experienced this with other guys before.
How do guys do this?
How do guys stay hard after…?
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It’s not unheard of but I wouldn’t call it common.
Yup, if you hit the gym and have your mind clear is very normal
Age. Genetics. That’s it.
He’s either a legend, or he’s on some fancy pill
Viagra.
If I keep going instantly I stay hard but if I take too long it goes limp
That was me in my 20s and 30s. No effort involved. Just crazy about partner.
In my experience it’s been bc the guy took cialis or something similar
Boner pill
It’s not normal, but it happens. We don’t really have conscious conrol over it so asking “how” we do it is kind of strange. Like how do you get wet? You just do, right?
Pretty easy to do if I’m absolutely head over heel’s about her body.
Just good health. It’s normal, as in nothing to worry about. Also excellent foreplay helps with staying hard for long + he’s really attracted to you.
Practice he’s probably worked at it
it could be also some penis pills, other than being a genetic lottery winner
he may be super attracted to you.
How old is he? Cos i could do that in my teens and early 20s
When a dude is super turned on, this happens. It should be taken as a compliment. Could also be supplements tho
It has always taken me at least a few minutes minimum to get back ready for another round. I’ve taken Cialis before but it didn’t really help with maintaining afterwards. For me, there’s always been a “down” period. Some guys say concentration, lots of practice, and other things, but nothing has ever made me stay hard for 30+ minutes after, damn.
Personally, 25 m, I’m the same, I blamed always having been an active athlete, just kept everything going well. But also seem to be even more since I’ve been off prn and msturb*tion for the year. Not saying this is the answer, just what I’ve chocked it up to on my end.
He’s on that honey pak and rhino at the same damn time
I’ve always stayed hard for at least two rounds. I believe it’s a state of mind truthfully. Drugs could be a possibility, but I can’t speak from experience on pharmaceuticals.
at 18 I was able to stay hard and cum 3 times for 1h 1h30 total in the same sex session. And I was able to have 5 sex session per day (1 for 1h 1h30, one 45 min, and 3 quickies of 15 min=)
now…. not anymore lol.
But in any case my wife don’t like more than half an hour, so good enough. (but I’m stilll able to hav sex 3 times a day)
every men is different, and we change during our life
blue chew
Happened every time I had sex with a 10 or had some really good nasty sex
It can be pretty easy to train yourself to do this, if you keep fucking through the sensitivity after cumming, you can just stay hard. It’s not as enjoyable the second time, but if you can power through not to orgasm a second time, it’s out of this world
Or pills, dick pills, Cialis or Viagra.
It’s a boner pill.
Some guys can do this. It’s absolutely delightful and normal for some. It does get more difficult to maintain as they get older so enjoy it while you can!
Genetics, healthy lifestyle.
Also going immediately again helps too.
And random luck
99.99% it’s viagra. 0.01% he’s a freak of nature
I see a lot of comments about ED meds, but idk, depends how old y’all are IMO
He might just be really really into you tbh, that’s how it was when I met my wife in our 20’s, I was just so head over heels for her that yeah I just wanted her time and time again
Viagra or ciallis
If he stays hard after cumming without cumming again then it’s pills.
Depends on his age, if in his 20’s he’s normal, if he’s in his 40’s it’s Viagra
He is using ED drugs.
No, that’s not normal. Most men have a refractory period of a few minutes to over an hour. When you’re young and healthy and with a new partner it can be very short, though. As others have said, there are medications that will do it.
It is possible to improve it with kegel exercises, but it’s very difficult. The refractory period also partially exists to prevent harming yourself. Priapism is no joke. Erectile tissue works by restricting blood flow.
100% he is taking some kind of boner pill
I can stay hard for 30 min after. But then I need a ham sandwich and a nap.
It’s pills most likely Viagra, because tadalafil is more gentle. Testosterone TRT doesn’t do that, and higher doses of testosterone do the exact opposite. 100% sure of that.
Viagra.
I suck a guy off, every week, as a happy ending to his massage and he stays hard after. It’s just there thick, long and leaking. Some guys are just gifted I guess
It depends on a lot of things. Could be he genuinely is just horny af and has a high sex drive. I wouldn’t say it’s super normal but not un heard of. Personally I can probably go another round after but it’s more like I’m just tired af so I need to rest and then inevitably I get soft and we just chill.
Not normal, ether he’s got stamina of unheard power or he’s on viagra
I remember one girl I was super attracted to and we could go on for about an hour, even after I came I would stay hard for a long time… then there’s other girls I can’t get it up at all lol. For me it depends on the girl
knowing men in general … i suspect that if this was common, we’d hear about it all the time, everywhere, in the news, on tv shows, there would probably be a special segment on the news every evening. i’ve never heard of it – and i know i would’ve heard of it from some of my buddies at one point or another.
keep in mind – i’m talking about maintaining it without any downtime. it’s somewhat common i suspect for men to be able to get back to business within 1-2 minutes after … but the way you describe it, it sounds like there’s no downtime, it’s a continuous erection.
so … no, i don’t believe this is normal. it can happen sometimes, and for some men, when young. i doubt it happens commonly past a certain age without some kind of help (medication) or some kind of particularity that the guy has.
hey, enjoy it. technically this should be a positive for you.
If you concentrate on staying hard, you can. If you are strongly aroused by your partner, you can stay hard.
Ahhh, I remember my 20s & early 30s – signed, 50+
Some men have low or non existent refractory periods. Its definitely the minority of us
Its like women who can squirt. Not a lot of them do. But some women produce gallons. Luck of the draw.
Drink more water and meditate
It starts with a “Vi”, ends with “agra”.
When I was a lot younger and married, I would get so turned on and aroused by my sexy wife, I could pull off some impressive stamina. My libido was stronger than hers, so it was wasted on her. We have been apart for a very long time now. So much wasted potential, I really needed someone who wanted to get really freaky.
My best friend, Nick Mullen gave me some chewables once that helped me out
Idk I’m able to keep going after after the first shot, pretty consistently if I just don’t stop. But if he stops shooting after the first shot I’d wager he’s on boner pills.
Impossible to tell.
I’ve had times when
All men sit in category 4, no-one is only 1-3
And then there obviously the Smurf pill that creates even more possibilities.
He loves you 🥰
When I was younger (16-25) I could do this. Now at 32 I get maybe 2-5 minutes after cumming lol
He could just be particularly horny. 🤷🏻
Not a clue 😂
Cialis helps, but he could just have a low recovery time.
I’m in my twenties and when my girlfriend haven’t seen each other for a while, the first couple of days we’re together I barely need any time between rounds. By the third day then I’ll likely need a bit more time before I’m ready to go, but not too long.
Idk how he does it. Because I sure can’t! I’ve occasionally taken some of the pills to help if I know I’ve got a sex filled weekend planned. But even then I don’t stay hard after. I think some men are just lucky in that department. I’m ok with it tho. I last long enough that there’s no issues with the girl not getting enough.
He’s taking viagra.
Guarantee.
I’m 52 and I can handle 3 rounds in a matter of 15 minutes away from another. Keep you health, fitness and happiness in check and enjoy many years of amazing sex !
Yeah, it happened to me like 20 years (and 50 pounds) ago…
It’s a mental thing. It happens to me sometimes if I’m in the right mood
He’s either super into you, or he’s on pills. That’s definitely not normal. Heck, some guys can’t even stay hard during the act if they aren’t at least moderately into you.
It happens. Shit it happens with me sometimes and I’m in my forties. I think it’s just how people are, like how some women are multiorgasmic.
Got bitten by a spider from Brazil or something
It happens to me, but only when I’m on 2 Tadalafil.
You clearly just tickle his pickle the right way.
He’s popping percs
Elevated testosterone levels. It can happen after a day of being “manly” and physically active, after taking t-supplements with/out a healthy diet, or otherwise spiking/on drugs.
Best way to explain it is “fuck it we ball” mania lasts into the nighttime activities.
Otherwise many men just have their time in the sun, others get lucky with a variety of health benifits.
Some of us have that ability if we’re worked up enough.
Probably has good cardiovascular health. When I was younger and fitter, I could absolutely go for multiple rounds with short breaks of making out or going down town.
As a younger guy, it was a regular thing for me. Now that I’m middle aged, it would take a pill.
Some guys are made that way. I have been able to have multiple rounds without getting very soft in between when I was younger. I apparently had a short refractory period but didn’t realize it at the time. My refractory period when I was young was like 1-5 minutes.
Now I’m older and sometimes have problems getting hard to begin with.
If it is concerning he may want to consult a doctor. There is a condition where this is the issue and can lead to issues later in life.