TL;DR After me and my gf got back together after a break up i’ve felt a large amount of frustration toward her for dumb little things
Is there anyone with advice on what I could do?
I need help, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years and it started fine and was going great until suddenly it was like out of nowhere she got severely attached to me, she would have panic attacks everytime i would leave the house and she was very upset anytime i would do anything without her.
at the time i was going through some very bad stuff I had just lost someone very close to me and I was spiraling and her attachment to me was making things a lot more stressful so I broke up with her but it didn’t last because i really do love this girl and we got back together and everything has been fine since, she hasn’t been super anxious and jealous and shes been very open about how she feels.
She loves me so much and it makes me feel horrible because ever since we got back together there’s been this feeling in the back of my head that makes everything she does so frustrating to me and I don’t understand why. when it first started happening i thought it was just a phase and i waited and hoped it would pass but 9 month
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It sounds like you’ve got some built up resentment towards her, you need to work out the reason why (probably her being overly attached to you) and work out why that angered you so much and try break it down and express it so it doesn’t keep affecting you, easier said than done I know! Maybe google ways to reduce resentment? Idk, good luck tho
Ok, first, stop being an ass to your GF or break up with her and stay broken up, those are the only choices you have to not be a grade AAA asshat. Can you give some examples of the specific things that have made you angry, like the last 3 things you can remember that you got upset about.